dealing with the past and present  

browneyes3055 48F
12 posts
11/2/2005 4:35 pm

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dealing with the past and present


why is it when you have had such a diffcult past that in todays world you have such a hard time dealing with everything or you get someone that says well i haven't had such a hard life as you or they say well i haven't been through what you went through.can someone tell me why it is so damn hard to deal with i try to get over my past but at times i find it very hard to do so

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3046 posts
11/3/2005 12:59 am

accept it , deal with it, get over it, move on.
life s for living , not regreting.

bluntly put , but well intentioned


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
11/3/2005 6:30 am

Depression is not an easy thing to shake?
I know I have been living with depression for a long time.


rm_bocajrs12 42M
14 posts
11/11/2005 9:42 am

If I may ask, what about your past has you so down?


browneyes3055 48F
2 posts
11/11/2005 12:51 pm

i was sexually & physically absued as a child and as a teenager and now i keep seeing those people that keep reminding me about my past and it really hurts


cope_the_man57 59M
2 posts
11/14/2005 5:55 am

maybe you shoud seek help for that,I think that type of things makes having a lover or friends very hard for the person abused.You did nothing wrong just rememer that.


rm_starchild712 51M
8 posts
11/14/2005 4:25 pm

I can understand how you feel. My family is dealing with a similar situation right now. It happened to my sister when we were kids. It was a family member who did it. Get back with me so we can chat offline.


browneyes3055 48F
2 posts
11/15/2005 4:49 am

hello ty for being honest with me and understanding not too many people agree or understand what i'm going through


rm_teexxx2002 42M
5 posts
11/16/2005 4:19 am

i help ease your pain with some good oral and no strings attached


realman551000 47M
32 posts
12/1/2005 10:56 am

What is beautiful?? people say that a super model or movie star is beautiful. Are they? most of them can not eat anything good or have a good time because they are under the microscope on everything.

People say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. what does that really mean is someone beautiful to one person and not another. Is beauty what you see, wether you are looking on the outside or inside of a person.

what about beauty is only skin deep... does that mean that a person's real beauty is what makes the person, not just the physical attributes of a person. or has our society become so superficial that we really dont see people for who they are


ShoresToExplore 52M

12/7/2005 8:56 pm

Apparently, you have suffered a traumatic experience that doesn't just 'go away' with the snap of fingers. Instead, certain memories haunt your everyday decisions and cause you to worry far more than others. This is a condition that probably requires professional intervention, with therapy or talking to a priest/minister/rabbi. Until you can pinpoint those experiences and face them head-on, you'll continue to suffer and question your suffering.


mr_nasty_ll7 52M
4 posts
12/28/2005 10:11 pm

I know this blog was written awhile ago, but the fact still remains that your mood might still be the same. If it is that solice in the fact that alot of people don't have what you have, and just get by on animal instincts (I'm talking about human beings). Yet, if in fact your moods has changed, I applaude you. For not letting life sometimes bitter challanges get to you. I know it's hard, but just keep living the life you want - need and everything else is just small fries


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