why does love hurt so bad  

brokenwings2005 44F
16 posts
6/23/2005 6:48 pm

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why does love hurt so bad

why does love hurt so bad.
the lies that are told,the games that are played.
why why why....

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
6/23/2005 7:52 pm

because a part of love is trust, the most crucial part, without trust there is no relationship, and when a relationship is founded on lies and illusions, the relationship itself becomes nothing more than a fantasy, and although fantasies are amazing reality will always done day come crashing down.....as a fantasy is not a solid foundation for anything of substance....


ROO87 29M
4 posts
6/23/2005 8:01 pm

guess there isn't a reason for it, the hurt only make us stronger and it make us think better whom to be with, whom to open up.
It sure isn't something we wan't or like but it is just something that is.

rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
6/23/2005 8:36 pm

Feel better baby.I just went through it myself.Told me I was the only one that ever made her feel special, and loved.Also the night before the split she told me I was everything she thought the right man could be.The next day she got asked out by a rich man.That was that.Happens to men all the time.She said feelings didn't matter she would only be happy with a full bank account.I tell myself the next one (if I let another in) will be worth it and make it all worthwhile.

plzingUwhenever 67M

6/23/2005 10:00 pm

maybe they were not lies but poor interpretations from poor communications. maybe the games were poor perceptions of reality and poorly interpreted and poorly communicated to the other and each invisioned it as a game when the only game was the vision

brokenwings2005 44F

6/23/2005 10:25 pm

i want to thank you all very much for your sweet and kind words i will take it all to heart.. again thank you so much...

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
6/24/2005 7:16 am

Love doesn't hurt, your pain comes from something other than love.

brokenwings2005 44F

6/24/2005 7:40 am

than where does the pain come from 4nik8 4u?????

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