A letter to Myself.  

brett97 39M
57 posts
8/10/2005 12:00 pm

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A letter to Myself.


How have you been? Ok, enough of the small talk. You and me, we have to have a serious chat. It seems that lately, you have not given yourself the credit you diserve. You are always putting yourself down, making excuses for things and exagerating your short commings. So, you aren't a great athelete, famous rock star, or sickingly rich, that's life. I'd bet that at least 90% of the population falls into the same category. This doesn't make you different.

As for your love life, relax. Things will happen when they happen. Every time you post something on this blog it's always something negative about how, after years of being on this site, you can't meet anyone. Shut the fuck up, you whinny bitch. If you are really putting the extent of your happiness in the hands of a website and the people on it, then you might want to seek some type of professional help. Apparently, you have a warped scense of happiness and what can grant it.

Now, i don't mean what I ame saying to be mean and crule, but it's the truth. You have a great head on your shoulders, just use it every once and awhile. Trust me, it won't kill you. Anyway, I hope some of the things I have said have seeped into you head and you start to realize that you don't need others to make you a better person.

Good luck,

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/10/2005 1:45 pm

i think yourself is making some good points. i am new to blogging and just wandering around reading a few others to see what sort of things are out there. someone made a comment on my blog who was saying that they had been on this or similar sites for about 10 years now. i asked him why he continued when it obviously wasn't providing him with what he wanted. it's a long time.. 3 years.

all i know about happiness is that at the end of the day i am the only one who can make me happy. others can certainly contribute to it but i have only myself to blame if i am unhappy. but you, and yourself, seem to know that too. good luck!

RHONDA39572 51F

8/18/2005 5:57 am

I have been on this site for years , i previously had a different handle as well, but i will be honest with you , you put down that you were looking for basically a male or female, well most women on here will not meet you , sorry , it is true, we actually did a post a while back and took a poll, and most women will talk and share pics with you , but will not actually let it go any farther because of that , i know it may be a double standard, women can be bi-sexual and have no problem, but for men there are reprocussions. I think do to the fear of aids. but good luck in your search.

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