What is the deal??  

boredhousewife30 43F
111 posts
11/29/2005 5:03 pm

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What is the deal??

OK I really have to know the answer to this...

How is it possible that a man can really think, a descent female is going to call him or meet him somewhere without seeing a picture of him, chatting once or twice, or not knowing anything other then what it says on his profile. I find it kinda humorous when a guy sends me a picture of his dick along with his phone number, granted I know most of us on here are here for one reason, however in my opinion (if it counts) is that I would not think for a second of meeting someone that I have no knowledge about what so ever...is that shallow of me, am I being paranoid?

By the way isn't the picture posted with this message perfect..lol

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
11/30/2005 8:43 am

Glad to see new posts in your blog. Was wondering how things were going.
No, don't trust them. I don't know what they were thinking. Maybe they were turning their head and saying "talk to the dick". LOL!
BTW if you ever want to call someone without revealing your own phone number dial *67 (star 6 7 just in case it comes out as a smiley; don't ya hate when that happens)before the number and it will come up as private number.
In the days of old if you saw someone stuck on the side of the road in a deserted area you would offer help. Now the best you can do is call 911 on your cell and let the police know. It's a sad state of affairs.
Nice pic.

boredhousewife30 43F

11/30/2005 4:41 pm

Thanks for the post, I didn't think I would get alot of responses on this topic because most people on here do exactly what I am speaking of. No big deal I was just wondering how one could think, it is that easy to pick up the phone or drop whatever it is they are doing to meet someone they don't have a clue about..Doesn't really matter to me because most that send emails to me like that just get deleted anyway.

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
11/30/2005 11:02 pm

Do you thing this guy, and others, find women that will actually call? Needing someone and craving sex is a very powerful emotion. It can lead us to do things we wouldn't ordinarily do. Being here for "one thing" doesn't mean be stupid. I've been trusted with womens' personal e-mail and phone numbers. I felt honored because you really don't know someone from just a few e-mails. They had no way of knowing that I wouldn't be a jerk after nothing developed after a first meeting. I think some guys on this site would have. What begins as a dream of wonderful things to come could become a nightmare real fast if you trust in the wrong person. I get paranoid that some woman will agree to meet only to try and blackmail me by threatening to tell my wife.
Yeah, I want that "one thing" but I want it to be with a nice person. And, although I didn't realize it when I joined, I also want connections with other people like those in the blog community.
In fact, I spend more and more time on blogs than e-mailing local women.

boredhousewife30 43F

12/1/2005 6:40 am

Oh huney, it's not just one guy it's most of them that send emails to my "box". Your right, about everything you have said, and I am sure there are also women on the site that are vindictive like that as well. Just hope I don't run into them. The last thing I need in my house if more freakin drama.

rm_bigthick14u2 40M

12/8/2005 6:00 pm

Just wanted to say that the pictures and the # is a bit silly. but as for myself i keep it very brief in the initial email because so many women just have an ad here to help sell a smut site and when you send them an email in response to their ad you get 1 million porn sites in your email box. so anyway that is why i dodnt say much in my first email or emails. and i have gotten no replys from most i guess they think i dont really want to talk to them

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