To do or not to do..that is the question  

boredhousewife30 43F
111 posts
10/30/2005 6:36 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

To do or not to do..that is the question


Ok here it is, I need advice big time!
This is the situation, I went to a party last night without my husband and all night long I noticed this guy who was very very good looking staring at me...well to make a long story short, he ended up being a friend of one of my cousins, which told me a little bit about this guy. He is married also and his wife was at the party but I didn't see them really together all night. Anyway, him and I ended up going off on our own and talking and all of the sudden he has his tongue down my throat and was very good at it He gave me his phone number and told me to call him. The problem I am having is first of all I am scared to death to have an affair with another guy. Only because I have alot to lose if I was to get caught. But the reality of it all is I am not happy in my marriage but can not leave at this point in my life because of my kids. The other thing is if I do call him, I'm afraid his wife will be near him...I really confused on what to do and I keep thinking would it be worth it or not..could I stand the guilt but at the same time I am thinking how exciting....UGH!! Help me I don't know what to do....

rm_BetsyBiguns 47F
9 posts
10/30/2005 11:45 pm

mmmmm the Exciting forbiden lover. Both of you are missing something in your marriages...be very careful. If he is smart he wont answer your call if his wife is near. You wouldn't want to share yourself with a stupid man any way. As far as the guilt, what if things get better between you and your hubby? If your marriage has no hope and you no longer like your husband be discreet and ride him like a wild bronc. lol


boredhousewife30 43F

10/31/2005 7:30 pm

LOL I am not sure what my marriage has left, he has changed so much it's like I don't even know him. I have also changed but in a different direction then he has. He is way to comfortable in our marriage and it is getting very old watching him do the same shit every day..I did call the other guy today and he didn't answer so I am assuming she was around. It is very exciting...I will keep the blog updated as the days go on...


boredhousewife30 43F

11/1/2005 4:34 pm

OK well I finally talked to him today and I was so freakin scared, I probably sounded stupid. But anyway he proceeded to tell me that he didn't regret kissing me and that it took everything in him not to take me into the bathroom where we were at and fuck my brains out..lol Kinda sad though because that would of sucked coming back outside to the party and having his wife sitting there. ( Nothing like killing the mood) I invited him out on Saturday to this bar a few of us girls are going to, so we will see what happens


rm_BetsyBiguns 47F
9 posts
11/3/2005 2:07 am

Good luck and most of all be careful.


boredhousewife30 43F

11/4/2005 3:58 pm

Thanks, Betsy and I will defiantly be careful...


rm_BetsyBiguns 47F
9 posts
11/5/2005 9:50 am

Tonight is the big night.....I am excited for you. Have a great time.
I guess I must be a boredhousewife too.....Please make sure to share all the details. I'm still looking for my excitement. Something is on the horizon though. :


boredhousewife30 43F

11/7/2005 7:32 pm

Betsy...don't get to excited he couldn't get out this shit is a pain in the ass..lol
I do talk to him every night, but I can't get that kiss he planted on my the first night out of my head, DAMN this man can kiss like you wouldn't believe, I can only imagine how well he eats some pussy..lol Can't wait to find out!
So sounds like you may have some up coming events..do tell!
Thanks for being in my little cheering section..


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