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I don't understand what many of the people on this site are really here for.
I read almost every where that most people want to make friends then lovers. That is great but why then when you write are you totally ignored.
Now, before anyone goes off on me I know that I don't look like Brad Pitt, my point is that I want to make friends also and hope that something more comes of it, if the more doesn't happen is everyone so rich in friends that they really don't want more. I like meeting new people and making friends.
I have read "that you have to get my attention no one line emails". Here is what won't get a response, HI, want to chat? Why doesn't it if any person on this site were at a social gathering that question would illict one even if it is fuck off.
So after being a long winded blowhard.
Why do people feel that someone should spend 20
minutes or half hour when the vast majority on
here won't answer anyway?
12/22/2005 9:06 am
You have to keep trying if you want success here. My male friends on here have mostly told me that I was FAR from the first woman they contacted and several of them had been on here for quite some time.|
I don't like one line emails myself because it seems that they are sent to me as part of a mass mailing. It's in your best interest to contact lots of women but to not make it seem each individual is part of a herd. Tough, I know, but that is how you get success here.
I also don't like emails that are simply copy and pasted versions of the text that is in the fella's profile. Even though I know he might have mailed several more women besides me I do like to think that he at least looked at my profile and read my blog before he wrote me. AND here is an exception to the one or two line email objection, if that little note is about something I said in my profile, as a comment in another blog or one of my own blog entries I WILL answer and promptly!
We all want to FEEL like the person writing took just a touch of effort specifically for us when we get a letter, men and women alike.
But that effort doesn't have to take but a few minutes.
Not all who wander are lost.