Why ever write to anyone???????  

bootielover3 56M
59 posts
12/16/2005 10:25 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why ever write to anyone???????


There is a total disregard for people's feeling's on this site. Why else for the total disregard for the people who email one and another. I would never not respond to an email but most of the people I have emailed have never even acknowledged I am alive.

Please explain if you can.

SlimGoodGuy 38M

12/16/2005 11:09 pm

Simple reasons for not responding:

1. Fake account
2. Not interested and not willing to tell you via reply
3. Too many emails to sort through
4. Not looking anymore/Not on site enough to read their email

How to deal with it:

Let it go, move on, try again. Make sure you read their profiles to the letter to make sure you fit what they are looking for.

Nobody said it was easy, or was that the AdultFriendFinder ad you read cause "Get laid instantly" doesn't seem to fit with this site does it? (humor)


imBambi 58M/50F

12/16/2005 11:30 pm

Yes, when I was single, I had that problem.

I know you did not ask for advise but... What I started doing was expermenting with my e-mails (short, long, humor, etc.). Soon, I got the feel for what worked based on the description and personality profile of the person I was writing. In short, try varying your style.

"Mr. Bambi"


Theflinkychick 105F

12/22/2005 9:15 am

Site restricitions also play a large part in the mix. If the women you are writing to are standard members then they can only answer a few emails a day. Many women on here cannot afford a membership, I know I can't. Mine was a recent gift from another blogger so I know the frustration myself of getting a lovely email and being unable to answer it.

And you may not fit the protocols that they have set in their filters. Your email might have gone directly to their filtered mail folder and they may choose to never open that folder so there is a chance that your email was never read.

Not all who wander are lost.


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