Ladies please help me to do better.  

bootielover3 55M
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12/22/2005 7:57 am

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Ladies please help me to do better.

I need help from any woman willing to give me it.
I am not a creative writer. I can make a point in my writing and am very good in preparing an argumentative or debate style, but I have major problems getting a woman's attention with an email, speaking though I am much better.

I have written some of those vulgar emails that women hate and I vow to not repeat them. This is why I am seeking help. When it comes to humor I have a pretty good sense of it, but I will never be a stand up, though I can tell a funny story.

So ladies, what should I say to get someone intrigued with finding out what makes me tick. What catches your attention.

I am looking for a friend and relationship not just one night stands.

All comments welcomed.


12/22/2005 9:29 am

I guess I should say that you should not feel so bad.

Only one girl has ever returned an email that I originally initiated.

All of the girls that initiated contact with me first wrote back but so far only one has responded to me when I wrote first.

I just think that overall the odds of _any_ guy getting response back here is pretty damn bad when they are the one doing the initiating. So overall you should not feel singled out by this.

But you might already know that.

I think I said this yesterday but my profile alone has really gotten negligible response. It's all been about the blog.

Sorry if I'm repeating myself but just trying to helfully suggestive in some way,


PS. It does seem like you have some quality of persistence and persevernce. If you can keep pushing on in some way and add some more patience to the mix eventually you should be able to turn up something. You need to figure out how to show your uniqueness whatever that is. That's for you to discover and then somehow exploit here.


Theflinkychick 105F

12/22/2005 9:36 am

Yeah, what KC_JJ said. Blogging can make a difference especially when coupled with emails pertaining to the blog entries. I just spent my vacation with a man from this site who first responded to my blog entries and followed up with emails. This site can work for you but you HAVE to work the site. Lay aside any assumptions of how you thought this site would work and be patient, it really does take time. I have made a wonderful connection here but it took BOTH of us months of writing emails and blogging to make it happen.

Not all who wander are lost.

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