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Ah! A place where I don't have to make any apologies for what I want and need....and neither do you!
Yup, I'm bisexual. I like having sex with men. I like having sex with women. I like having sex with men and women together. I also like having sex with people whose gender is ambiguous, somewhere "in-between" or "other." I am a gender omnivore.
That said, some people's approach to bisexuality is that they don't care what kind of "plumbing" their partners have. I care. A lot. I love it all, and want it all, and need it all. I revel in the differences, and take comfort in the similarities.
NON-SMOKERS ONLY PLEASE!
On the Klein scale, I'm about a 3 (out of 7....I prefer women, but desire men more than a little).
When I'm with men, I tend to be a bottom. With women, I'm more of a top. With a woman and a bi or gay man together, I want to be in the middle as much as possible (although that in no way makes me want any less to enjoy having both her and him in the middle -- yes, I'm a ball of contradictions....so sue me).
Not so much into S&M stuff, although a little play is exciting. Definitely not looking to be in the BDSM "lifestyle." Love the accoutrements, even some pain and restraint....just not into any dominance/control/power issues.
In a man, I'm looking (ideally) for somebody tall (over 6-0) and slender (under 200), smooth, muscular, hung, thick, cut, YOUNGER THAN ME, not a redhead....probably....maybe. That doesn't mean I won't play with and thoroughly enjoy somebody outside these parameters; it's just not what I'm LOOKING for. A little cockiness is fine; macho bullshit is a non-starter.
In a woman, I'm easier to please, physically....just no anorexics and no really large SSBBWs. She MUST have a desire to see and/or participate with two guys who are seriously getting into each other. She should be assertive, not somebody who craves being dominated but who can enjoy being dominated when/if it comes around.
In all my partners, intelligence, imagination, responsiveness, humor are MUSTS.
What do YOU want?