OK so I just gotta rant a minute.. well sorta  

bobsbabygrl69 47F
16 posts
4/5/2005 8:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

OK so I just gotta rant a minute.. well sorta


I am not much of a ranter... is that a word? Anyway, I am really generally easy going. It usually takes quite a bit before I actually get agitated, irritated, pissed off... or feel the need to rant but once I get there...... ohhhhh laaaa laaaaa, watch out..

Well actually, I'm not that comfortable ranting most of the time. So to put a positive spin on it - if you are a person that took the time to read my profile before contacting me let me just say thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. Whether you were interested or not, I don't care, just that you took the time to read it and learn something about me first.

So on to the ranting...

See, I just don't get people who don't bother to read your profile at all but then take the time to contact you trying to hook up or something not even knowing if I am their type or what I am looking for and if it is compatible with what they are looking for. So what happens is, we both spend our time e-mailing or chatting or whatever only to find out we have wasted our time because in the course of conversation they find out something that was clearly spelled out in my profile, and they say something to the effect of.. 'oh wow, I didn't realize that, that won't work for me.'

It is seriously beginning to irritate me.

I know.. I bet you are wondering why I am all hot and bothered about it, I bet you are thinking.. big deal.. get over it.. take a cold shower. ya ya ya - I hear ya.. but here is the thing. If it were one or two people, no sweat - like water off a ducks back, ya know. But it isn't just one or two people, and it is getting kind of old.

I feel that I spent the time writing the profile so that potentially interested people could find out something about me and decide if they should contact me or not before actually wasting their time or mine. The least someone can do is read a little bit of it before any further contact takes place. When the third thing I mention in my profile is that I am married, and I clearly spell that out more than once, it really starts to irritate me when I keep getting.. 'oh really, you are married? I am not down with that.. I am looking for a single woman.'

Is it just me or does this happen to anyone else?
Am I just being too high strung here, or is it worthy of a little ranting????

Yes.. friends and neighbors, don't hold back. I really would like to hear what you have to say.

EMSqueen 40F

4/6/2005 12:42 am

I think it's rant-worthy. I've gotten a couple of e-mails from a guy whose profile specifically says he is looking for a couple (man and woman) for a threesome. Ummmm, okay, that would NOT be me. His profile also says that he is a VERY oral person and mine clearly states that I am not at all interested in oral b/c I consider that to be more of a "relationship" type activity. My views are different than most peoples on that one, but putting a man's cock in your mouth or allowing him to bury his face in your crotch is quite an intimate position to be in.


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