getting to know other people  

blue_turqoise 36F
109 posts
11/30/2005 6:27 am

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getting to know other people

When you see sexy pics of someone here, write messages to her/him and finally get to know each other better (e.g. via emails), what do you think of her/him?
Some people seem to think that they can just draw a conlusion about a person's characteristics by some actions that person does (posting sexy pics, the way she/he responds the messages). Later, when they meet in real, they get a big disappointment because this person just seems different from the idea they have built already in their mind about her/him.
Can we actually know someone only by pictures, chatting or emailing? (what a rethoric question!)

friendsfirst1965 51F  
44 posts
11/30/2005 6:53 am

Yes i think you can get to know............. and now we have web cams helps alot.... chatting on phone........... helps you get to know the person.... and i think u go from there...........sure there are disappointments, but such is life.Take good with the bad i guess.... good luck on you searches...........Lisa

hairbabedelivers 52F

11/30/2005 7:13 am

valid point, sometimes, and on second thought probably most of the time, people are so busy hiding behind their ask me for a photo sillhouettes,my cam is broken,my sex life at home sux, and their self-sabotaging actions to be completely honest from day one. first with themselves and then with others. yes, i think you can, but it takes two people who want to know. kudos to those who are sure and waiting. Hell...give em'snaps and twists too, or maybe a parting gift. not like a shirt that you just leave behind, but a real gift, like a compress for the wounds or a calendar to mark the days until they "get" you...getting to know other people

ajax28003 36M
70 posts
11/30/2005 5:42 pm

is that a real pic
or a pic of some av girl

rm_kingzts 39M
25 posts
12/1/2005 8:42 am

hi blue turqoise,

can invite u out for a drink? just wan to know u more

contact me ok, king_zts at hotmale

hope to hear from u soon, muacckkksss...!

rm_PakAlex 49M

12/6/2005 7:12 am

Getting to really know someone over the internet is quite hard. While I have met people that are completely honest (very much appreciated), the majority have not been this way. Some people view the anonymity of the internet as creating the freedom to be completely honest and some just the opposite. To me, the funny thing is that is never seems to be anything in between.

rm_topfab1972 46M
12 posts
12/6/2005 8:43 am

well sounds like we have a few things in common,, you can reach me om yim under topfab1972 and lets chat some and see where it goes

supinefeline 51M

12/6/2005 7:04 pm

blue... in someone's pics and writing you can only find a hint of what there is, but if you read between the lines, estimate the person by the picture they post, you can judge them quite well. do not despair, for amongst all the crap here, i have found a lover so special, that words cannot express. i hope you do too.


SexRecon25 44M
5 posts
12/22/2005 2:56 am

If you really want to know someone, you have to meet him or her. Talking in the flesh is the best way to get to know someone.
Pictures cannot tell you the truth. But if you decide to meet someone or do something with someone after watching a picture, exchanging mails or chatting, then you have to be ready to face any consequences.
This is debatable though. I mean, I have other views also. Well, people are now using webcam. This has changed modes of interaction to a certain extent.
Well, I think I need to make an article for this

bluestainXXX 37M
6 posts
1/13/2006 2:37 am

Hi Blue,

I am Blue here too..

Love to know you more for fun togehter. drop me an email

I am waitng...


bluestainXXX 37M
6 posts
1/13/2006 2:38 am

hi Blue.
waiting for your reply

chuanz69 36M
11 posts
1/17/2006 7:15 pm

I'm Surprise see women in my country so brave, pic so.....make me think...this is true or not....

Can we actually know someone only by pictures, chatting or emailing? No. we can actually know someone in the real world.....maybe u can hiking.....(Why) u can see about a person's characteristics (basic) or other activity,where human feel in danger..that real characteristics ..good luck..

rm_mylover1432 42M
1 post
1/22/2006 6:15 am

i would like to chat with u, and ineed ur photos &videos. my id is AdultFriendFinder

rm_topfab1972 46M
12 posts
1/24/2006 11:54 am

hey blue havent gotten a response from you hun,, just thought id check in and by the way thats the best curves ive seen in a while, you look damn good girl

rm_d_crazy_guy 39M
3 posts
1/28/2006 2:38 pm

Can we actually know someone only by pictures, chatting or emailing?

What can pictures, chatting or emailing give you? Almost nothing. can you know the personality of the person by just looking at her/his pictures, reading her/his emails, or talking in chat rooms? we can all pretend to be someone else, just to look good, to get the attention. how can we know that what he/she says comes from his/her true self?

rm_wrasse4 35F

2/15/2006 4:04 am

You can't always know someone truly even using the old fashioned way, looooong before internet, etc.... so how is it going to get easier now that we're taking short cuts in 'meeting new people'... not that it hasn't been convenient and practical... just take things with a grain of salt

zuperdon 36M
5 posts
4/3/2006 10:09 pm

hmm....lets hang out 1st and lets see if u r as sexy as i think? could u handle the thrill??? ... we'll talk for sure. oh btw, u can choose d place

UnfixChaosVoter 60M/43F

1/11/2008 7:36 pm

We have found that a lot of people here want to do things quickly, with little effort - a msg, exchange phne umbers, set up a meeting.

We find it works much beter for us to correspond a bit. That does give a picutre of how the person thinks. So, when we have finally met people, it usually works out well.

Of course, looking for a partner(Love!) is entierely different and disappointment more likely!

supinefeline 51M

6/10/2008 6:42 pm

Isn't that the same as... life? Some people are what they seem, others are not. Life is full of disappointments. And lets face it, if you are looking for something real, would you look for it here?

bimantara3 39M

9/15/2008 11:23 pm

what do you expect honey? this is just our get away site,i know people here are mostly find fuck buddy, then they just want to make it as simple as possible,anyway i loved your back,go crawling tourquise..find your way out..

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