bleedpapertears 34F
63 posts
3/17/2005 11:19 pm

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sometimes men disgust me, seeing all of the ones that are cheating. why can't people be faithful, or at least get out of the relationship instead of making it potentially worse? is it worth trapping yourself, and growing to resent that person because they can't give you everything you want?

i'm sorry, but i'm not just a sex machine.. lol. sometimes i want to be the only person. i don't want to be the 'other woman'. sometimes i think that coming on here was a bad idea. sometimes i want more than just a fuck buddy.


djkozzmx 42M

3/18/2005 12:11 am

Ok, i'm agree. But please, don't think every single man are just a macho! Because that's not a general rule I'm my case is more important the whole relationship, on that way sex is just part of, not the only thing to enjoy! Greetings from Mexico! Cordially: Enrique (djkozz dot c...)

I_M_A_Troll 42M
1 post
3/18/2005 12:33 am

I think if you want a faithful man you are in the wrong place.

Women also tend to chose the wrong guys either thinking that they can change them or just by being naive. You are really beautiful, I would suggest being more selective when going out with someone.

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
3/18/2005 1:12 am

it can just be a mental overload at times that is why excess in moderation works

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

IPman 60M
313 posts
3/18/2005 2:54 am

Dear bleed paper tears,

I am not going to convince you in a couple of sentences, however, there are many married men on AdultFriendFinder for more than sex. And the reasons they have gone outside their own marriage are multidimensional (its not all about sex) I am not saying its the right thing to do; but I would ask you don't judge us so quickly.

rm_lkychrm77 39M

3/18/2005 3:53 pm

Hey there! I agree with you. I kinda wonder if coming to this site was a bad idea too. It's nice to know though that there are some females on here that are not here for just sex and want a relationship. I myself would really like a relationship, but have not had much luck, so I am looking for sex. I'm single, and am looking for a girl with a combination of a relationship as well as sex. I think you sound great! I sent you an e-mail, but heard no response from you. If you have instant messenger you can reach me at hita4teamer on yahoo, or on GolfDrew7 on AIM. I would really like to get to know you better. Hopefully I will hear from you. ~Andy

sex4u106 36M
2 posts
3/18/2005 11:05 pm's not just the men that are unfaithfull. I honestly think that women have a big part in the whole cheating issue, I have been cheated on at least 4 times by the mother of my child. I am on hear not onl looking for that fuck buddy but for someone that actually knows how to treat and respect a man and his feelings. Anyway good luck

searchforafriend 37M/32F

4/4/2005 5:13 pm

Before we became a cpl..I (the female) thought that you should be with only one person. And that one person should be enough for you. Then I met my man and we started this 2 years later. And he told me if I ever wanted to go off and "try" to be with someone just tell him. I told my friends that my man told me just to be honest with him and not keep anything from him. My friends all thought this was weird. Then to come to find out everyone of them are cheating on their boyfriends and being sneaky. That is why they thought it was weird that me and my man were so open about things like that. That is what makes me mad..that they all have great men that stay at home while they go out and get a piece of a** somewhere else. If you can't be honest...don't be in a relstionship at all.

theloneranger7 32M
3 posts
4/7/2005 1:37 am

haveing a relationship is not an easy thing in fact its one of the hardest things that we can experiance in this life time other than death violence and all the things that go along with humanity. in my life and all my personal experiance I have never cheated on a girlfriend I have always been the one cheeted on because sex is just not on my mind not every man in this life only wants sex. yes sex is a good thing yes it makes your body feel good but the most important thing in life and in a relationship is trust and communication I guess thats really more like the most important 2 things. inorder to have a good relationship it needs to have a firm foundation...mmm sex is just not a firm foundation you probably already know that a frim foundation is friendship, trust, love, partnership. when you look for a relationship think about this can he/she take care of me if I am in a rut or haveing bad luck and will he/she be there for me when I need them the most. not how big is their dick, can they set my body on fire with ther body, can they satisfy my animalistic instincts to be pleasured. sex should be the farthest thing from your mind and their minds when you start a just complicates things...let me know if you wanna talk some more....ummm I know I am young but I have been through some shit in my life that no one should have to go through if you wanna know more just let me know. -M-

goodtimes3919 43M
3 posts
4/14/2005 3:23 am

It sucks. People can throw there 2 bits in but until someone you really care about does it to you. Then you will understand and know that what it did to you can have the same or even worse effect on them If you cheat on them.

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