The Woman I am Looking For  

blacksexynerd 45M
22 posts
8/19/2006 8:17 pm

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10/1/2006 12:40 am

The Woman I am Looking For

She is a beautiful African American woman with an attractive face and figure, slender to average in build. She is sufficiently confident about her appearance that she does not avoid particular outfits in an attempt to hide what she perceives as her imperfections. She is friendly with a pleasant disposition.

She is not in love with me. She does like me as a person, and she appreciates what is good about me, but she’s not trying to become my girlfriend or wife. In a way, she is using me with my permission. She might have been lonely before she met me and maybe my presence in her life makes her less lonely. She likes to have someone to go on dates with her, to take her dancing, to explore the city with her, to listen to her, to hold her, to give her massages, and to be affectionate with her. And she appreciates that someone being me, at least at this point in her life. She is not “clingy” and does not depend on me for her every step. She has a life; she just enjoys sharing part of it with me.

She doesn’t mind that I am often horny and she doesn’t mind feeling my erection when I hold her close, or grind against her, or put her feet in my lap. Instead, she enjoys it. She understands and is okay with the fact that I do not want to have sex until marriage, despite my sexual arousal. Maybe she doesn’t want sex at this point either. Or maybe she does and she is dating someone else also and gets her sex needs fulfilled there.

But she is sexually playful enough that she enjoys playing with my body ‒ both doing things she knows I like as well as instigating things she likes. Because things will never go too far ‒ since I won’t have sex ‒ and because she knows I care about her and genuinely respect her, she feels completely safe to say or do anything that crosses her mind in this arena.

She doesn’t mind me buying her sexy outfits and in fact she enjoys seeing the way it arouses me when she puts them on and she enjoys the affection that follows immediately after.

I don’t have to bite my tongue, or walk on eggshells, or avoid certain topics when talking with her. She is very open-minded and she deeply values honesty. She wants to get inside my head and understand how I think and she prizes conversations where she learns more about me.

If I have described you, we definitely need to talk.

silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/19/2006 9:40 pm

No, sweetheart, you haven't described me - however, I do think you should change your site "name" to "blacksexysensualnerd" !!!! Love what you wrote, and hope you find her!

bills004 34F

9/26/2006 11:05 pm

well dont know wat to say,we could get talkin n see wat ever happens

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