Why not  

rm_blackmale996 47M
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3/21/2006 7:33 pm

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3/22/2006 7:26 pm

Why not

Why not me? This is the question I ask myself each day, why not me? Is it because I'm black? Maybe it's because I'm a man? Oh wait, maybe it's me??? Because I'm black, maybe it's the way I see things, everything isn't black or white with me. I like colors... lots of colors. I would love to date or get to know other people from a different race or culture. Here's a hard truth; I would love for someone who about 5'5 about 120lbs (and no, I'm not putting in a race or color) because I know, this woman will never e-mail me. Water seeks its own level. Please don't get me wrong, I'll take 5'7 200lbs with a big butt! And a smile. Hello! Here's my one wish, I wish we didn't have to put up pic's, this way, you would get to know the person, not the pic. Love is love no matter what. I don't know maybe its me?

2GirlsGoodBenBad 36F/33F

3/21/2006 8:01 pm

Funny and interesting. I always believed that "black men" had more of a chance in getting laid in various different situations than any other "race" of men. Sure you'll catch someone's attention.

InfiniteDiest 47M

3/21/2006 9:52 pm

Don't give up! Just realize that this is a virtual bar...without the music and alcohol. At best there is only 1 girl for every 13 guys on this site. It's a veritable "sausage party". But your first real problem isn't that your black, its that you are a "single male". THAT fact alone will make being on this site more frustrating than anything else.

It'll happen for you though. Patience and a lot of it, is the only way to survive in this place. Especially, if you are actually looking for something meaningful.


smoothbrotha4ya 44M

3/22/2006 5:53 pm

Maybe it's just me, but I have always found it a bit curious that single men were the least likely of all the people on this site to gain success. I mean, what did I do wrong? Anyway, while I did say "least likely", by no means did I say "impossible". Just be real, be cool, and be courteous. The flood gates will indeed open.

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