What's the Best Cushion for the Pushin'?  

bipolybabe 54F
10715 posts
8/1/2006 12:10 am

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8/4/2006 8:08 am

What's the Best Cushion for the Pushin'?

My friend protonicman's blog about buying an air mattress made me dang curious.

Ya see, I worked in the Youth Conservation Corps in high school with this guy on whom I had a big ole dang crush. We ended up on an overnight out in the boonies where we were supposed to be repairing the irrigation system to water the northern Nevada desert. I don’t recall why we needed to water the desert. My only concern at 16 was to strip off my khaki shirt as often as possible and jump into the irrigation ditch to cool off, wearing my bright orange “boob tube.” Yeah, you heard me right. I wore a boob tube. My boobs held up the tube back then 'stead of the other way 'round.

Anyways, sitting around the campfire at night, I complained about how hard it was to sleep on the sun-baked ground. My Crush boasted that he had a good “cushion for the pushin’.” Truth is, that boy, he had a mighty fine ass, the roundness of which I had been checkin’ out. He coulda been a brotha so fine was his ass. Oooheee!

Dang! I want to squeeze his ass right now. My LIP (Live-In Penis) has a mighty fine ass like that. Mighty sad he’s sleepin' or I could squeeze his ass to help my rememberin'.

Anyways, I was a virgin at the time and curious as heck but not ready to make the leap, so I never did find out if I coulda slept better on top of him. Or, more importantly, if I coulda had fun on top of his mighty fine cushion!

Ahem, excuse me while I rearrange myself “down there.” Ahhhh, that’s better.

So my question is...

What’s the best cushion for the pushin’? Why?
Conventional bed
Air mattress
Sex Swing
Ground under a sleeping bag
Washing machine
Spread-eagled across the kitchen table
Above the toilet in the bathroom of a dive bar
Pin my ass to a cactus. No matter long's I'm gettin' sum.


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rm_dosrev 38M
2091 posts
8/1/2006 4:16 am

Ok, I LOVE my bed both for sleeping and for sex. Its a waterbed frame, but without the waterbed bladder. I threw in a queen sized matress and it fits PERFECTLY in the spot. Its perfect for me because I like a very firm matress to sleep on. Often when I sleep at a friends house, or what not, I'll just throw a few blankets on the ground and sleep there.

For sex its far superiour to a softer bed because your partner (or you, depending on whos on the bottom) wont slide away from you or sink in as much as a normal bed.

For a about 8 months when I first bought the waterbed I actually used it. Then I finally realized how much I hated it. Waterbeds are the absolute worst in my opinion.

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bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 7:58 am:
My ex-girlfriend had a waterbed, and it was tricky to do anything very athletic but it was fun to rock on the waves very gently.


fijiguy610 57M  
88 posts
8/1/2006 7:41 am

Back in the heyday of the water bed, it was so much fun to make waves. An occasional tsunami could be experienced as well.

What was nice was to crawl into a nice warm bed. It was a definite selling point to an otherwise cold body in these cold Minnesota winters. Most women are constantly cold when the temperature drops below 60 degrees. The prospect of crawling under the sheets of a constantly warm bed and a super thick comforter with out clothes on was enough to turn a girl from frigid to warm, wet and ready in mere seconds.

I really miss that bed. Alas, it fell victim to its own technology. It was not that great for my back (lack of support for the lumbar region) and the heater was always breaking. Finally got rid of it in favor of a more conservative, albeit boring, traditional box spring and mattress combo.

Recently, went with a Sleep Number bed. I can't say that I find it any different than a traditional box spring and mattress as far as 'the cushin for the pushin'.


bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 7:59 am:
Good to know that your evaluation hasn't found the Sleep Number any different than the traditional bed, since the Sleep Number costs big numbers.


rm_sexxikritter 52F
2715 posts
8/1/2006 8:41 am

I don't mind playing around with other venues for sexual activity, but give me my bed most of the time! Not too soft, not too hard...ahhhh, it's JUST right.
The perfect bed would have an additional three feet on the end of it. I'm not a fan of 69, so if I want to spread out as I'm sucking on some cock, half my bod is off the bed.
I've done the waterbed thing and did not like it. Hard to get a grip while getting it doggy. The waves kept knocking me over.

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:02 am:
Yeah, three feet longer would be great!

And, I've never liked 69 until my latest lover (who shall remain unnamed until we hit on the perfect nickhame) when I've found it to be totally over the top in terms of overstimulation. Almost too much of a good thing. Almost.


Mermaidslut 49F

8/1/2006 8:58 am

Waterbed, because it ya time it right, riding the waves, of course.

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:03 am:
Waterbeds seem to get a mixed response. I liked ridin' the waves but found it hard to do anything more athletic!


Greekgirl4u06 39F

8/1/2006 9:15 am

like the good old standard bed for romping around, but gotta say, bout busted my gut when i read the one about the cactus!

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:03 am:
I've never tried it against a cactus but, actually, have often thought about it. I wonder if anyone has?!?


earthShiva 59M

8/1/2006 12:54 pm

Not al beds are equal. I had a waterbed for years and loved it. Using the rhythm of the waves let you go for hours and hours with almost no work, but it didn't work well for all positions.

I have the same complaint towth our newest mattress/box spring combo. It's oneof those really plush pillowtop jobs, and its sooo comfortable! But even soemthing as conventional as doggie style is hard to do with the amount of cushioning. Youd don't notice right away, but after a while you realize that your repertoire has narrowed...

My best bet - a really firm mattress with a 2 in memory foam topper.

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:04 am:
And the two inch memory foam topper is to remind you how to do it?


Panthiest 72M

8/1/2006 1:53 pm

Waterbeds with the foam on top and bottom so you don't get sea sick


Just for a change (No! No! Not the cact-ass! Well maybe a little one....ha!)

Tried this one with my ex: a reclining chair with an ottoman. I lay in the chair, back set down some and my butt on the ottoman. She's on top. the differnce between this and Cowgirl on the bed is her feet are on the floor and she has Waaaaaaay more control. She could lean forward, pin my arms behind me while getting more action on her clit, in total control or I could hold her arms and let her lean way back gettngher G-spot stimulation. But in any and all positions she could use her legs to move anyway she wanted. Definately a turn on for both of us.

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:06 am:
Thanks for the rec on recliner sex! That sounds like a good variation that could spare my knees the abuse that "the squat" has given them.


spacecadet561 59M

8/1/2006 2:57 pm

I've done it in a plain bed, a water bed, on a couch, in a whirlpool tub, in the shower, on the floor. I prefer the plain bed. The water bed was okay, but a pain to get back out of after a really good sex. The others were all a bit cramped.


sugarbabyhhh 43F

8/1/2006 5:03 pm


bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:10 am:
Thanks for reminding me about the sex swing. I tried one only once. It sounds so perfect but doesn't feel intimate enough. I like more skin contact, I guess. But, it does work beautifully for ease in oral sex.


Iwakura16Eyes 37F

8/2/2006 9:05 am

I've done all but the cactus, the potty (eww!), and the sleeping bag (though I'd like to)...

I hate the waterbed---hurts my back... hard to get out of. Futon is good--if you dun break it like we did and the air mattress allowed more of a sort of firmness for me to ride him like crazy.... all-in-all, ok....

but yeah... *shuts up*

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 8:11 am:
Gotta try the air mattress. I blew my first one up through vigorous overuse the first time out of the box!


earthShiva 59M

8/4/2006 10:06 am

bipolybabe replies on 8/4/2006 9:04 am:
And the two inch memory foam topper is to remind you how to do it?


Shock absorption, baby!

SpateSheenCarom 63M

8/4/2006 11:47 am

Pillowtop mattress has been the most comfortable all round bed - My friend got one and was great to fuck on and sleep in. Have done it on airmattresses with a sleeping bag on top...on the floor, in a chair, picnic bench, back of a van, on the ground with a blanket.

rm_Kellso06 46M
6 posts
8/5/2006 12:01 am

I prefer the challange and excitement of different places around the house (outside or in the car)thats why, spread eagle on the kitchen tabe would be great, then just wipe off the table and hava snack.

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