being invisible  

bigrob3172 44M
71 posts
10/2/2005 12:11 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

being invisible

I don't think that I'm totally invisible. My ex wife calls me every other day, usually to bitch and moan, and my adorable children are always extremely happy to see me. But as i go from website to website, checking my e-mails, I never even get a wink, a hey what's up, or a how do ya do. And that's the kind of invisibity that I am speaking about. How do I get noticed by member's of the opposite sex? What should I say as I attempt to get noticed? I sit all day on my day's off with my kids at the park, or McDonald's playland, or the mall, by myself. Should I try to say hi to the other parents, which are almost always women? Or should I just sit in silence and enjoy my quality time with the kids? So many questions, so few answers.

leyndokona2 49F

10/2/2005 10:55 am

Be yourself and do what feels right.

bigrob3172 44M

10/2/2005 10:38 pm

Thanks for the hints.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/4/2005 1:31 am

Winks are useless anyway. Get at least a silver ball and start writing to women. Men vastly outnumber men here, if you haven't noticed. Joining this site was no guarantee of meeting anyone or getting laid. Just like in real life, you have to do the work, court the women, etc.

Now, I address various things in my blog, MissAnnThrope and tamethytension has a great entry in his blog for newbie men, Men of AFF ... dial 911.

I hope this all helps. No, the site isn't a rip-off if you know how to approach the opposite sex in general.

rm_4hubby 47M/46F
1 post
10/4/2005 6:12 pm

To answer your question about meeting people while in the park, you should first look for a ring, then strike up a conversation about her child. It will work! Women love to talk about their kids. good luck!

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