Softness  

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F
305 posts
8/29/2005 8:31 pm

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Softness


Well, here's a topic I brought to an obscure local group; it was hardly noticed. So, here it is again...
Over the years I have developed a taste for a woman with what you would say is a litte heavier than average. I believe there is a "softness" in the way she touches and feels. It's a feeling that a "hardbody" cannot duplicate (in my experience) Sorry if I offend, but it seems that a woman who is so self indulged with "those last 5 pounds" cannot possibly do anything but compete with her partner in bed. Have you ever watched "Jerry McGuire"? The girl he is having sex with in the beginning; she embodies what I am talking about. Sex is about mutual pleasure, not who can outlast the other one. Sure, that kind of sex is good every once in a while, you know, outright "F*cking", but the really good orgasms come the way that I heard HG describe it "taking time, savoring the moment, building up and cooling off, only to build it up again" or something like that. Now I'm sure there are a few "hardbodies" out there that just come by it naturally (F&F, I'm sure), but even then, when the love making is done, it's nice to lay my head on my woman's nice soft breasts (sidebar - here's bigred's guide to decribing bust size - in acending order - titties, tits, breasts, boobs, and really big boobs; you figure it out) and relax and enjoy that moment of extreme satisfaction. I don't think I have a BBW fetish or anything, and if I do, it's not in a degrading sense of the phase. Sometimes I just don't have the words to describe what's on my mind, help me out!

hourglasses 47F

8/29/2005 11:21 pm

A little off topic but ... That scene you're talking about is one of the funniest sex scenes in movie history I just hope there weren't any 16 yr old watching that thinking that's the way it really is.

I'm trying to lose weight for my health, but I know I'll never be thin again...and I don't care. I've grown to like the way I feel. Everyone always tells me how soft I am. In fact, when I had a job where I had to travel with other people in a car, people used to sleep on me

So I will just have to keep looking for men who are like you.


rm_kitamarou 57M
75 posts
8/30/2005 8:08 am

My important one will become hard by seeing your undergarment image.


Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

8/30/2005 1:13 pm

Hey again Red

Well yes I too prefer a softer curvy figure. Not that I would judge a skinny lady if I were single, and she was what I was looking for, I am talking mental ideals, not reality. Am attracted to down to earth ladies that is real, not TV silicone, or drama whores, or pity me's ect ect.
Guys give me funny looks when I say Jessica's Simpson's ass is too small. Other women gasp when they hear a guy say "her ass is too small." Maybe I broke a holy oath?

Hair and curvs it is all about hair and curves!

Hope your day is going well!


FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

8/30/2005 2:25 pm

Red- I think it's great that you aren't one of those guys who only wants women that look like supermodels. I don't understand how people can be so superficial sometimes. There should be more guys like you in this world!

But, one thing perplexes me. I'm not sure why you referred to me as a "hardbody". I'm not offended, but I am confused. I'm not a big girl, but I am average. I'm not a diet fanatic by ANY means, I just want to tone up. My weight has fluctuated alot in the last few years & I'm trying to find a happy medium. So, by no means does being a "hardbody" come naturally to me. lol

When it comes to sex, I don't always just "fuck". I love the passion of slow, sensual sex, too! I agree that some of the most intense orgasms happen when you take the time to build it up. But, sometimes I get so into it that taking things slow goes right out the window! LOL! If it's a quickie, I get right down to business. If there are no time restraints, I love to go all night. It just depends on my mood (& how much time we have).

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bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

8/30/2005 6:30 pm

PNS - Yes, I've even ussed the word scrawny to descibe soem women. Although I saw the Dukes of Hazzard movie last week, and Ol Jessica wasn't lookin' too bad, maybe she put on some weight for that movie

Frisky - I only know you from your pictures, and you look pretty trim to me! The character you present here makes me thing you don't put that much effort into keeping that way (you know, obsessed?) And I always like to hear about sex with you!!


bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

8/30/2005 6:33 pm

Kitamarou - You must be new around here, welcome!
Glad you like MY WIFE'S picture, she doesn't blog much, but your important one will like the picture she puts up when she does...


bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

8/30/2005 8:40 pm

HG - Good to hear from you! If I ever need a carpool in Michigan, I knwo who I'll call!
MzHuny - Thanks for coming by and commenting, always a pleasure to hear from one of the great bloggers!


bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/1/2005 6:17 pm

HEY OTR - You said and better than I did, thanks for stopping by


patsam69 51M/51F

9/4/2005 11:50 am

Red...Yeah!!! I love a man that thinks this way....of course that is because I am fat. LOL. But I think society puts so much pressure on women to be thin thinner and thinnest. Jessica simpson used to look good then she lost weight to do the dukes of hazzard, and now she looks like a bobble head doll. Put the 20 pounds back on Jessica! It's a shame. Many actresses have babies and realize that they look good with a little more junk in the trunk. I may have too much junk...but I have never been with a man who complained about it!


bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/4/2005 1:44 pm

Sam - I hear ya! "Junk in the Trunk"? "Baby's Got Back"? The classical actresses were beautiful and comfortable with their figures - Lauren Bacall, Marilyn Monroe, Doris Day... Hollywood has definately gone too far and the new women are like "boards with breasts implants" I've even heard people call Sandra Bullock fat, and she's got one of the best bodies in Hollywood, in my opinion. Thanks for stopping by!


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