First Time  

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F
305 posts
9/26/2005 9:41 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First Time

I know I should have posted this way earlier, the longer I wait, the more unreal it seems. I had my first sexual experience (with my husbands blessings of course) last week. We chatted one day, hit it off great. The next day, I met him at a Motel. He had candles going. It was nice. He started off with a back massage. He then blindfolded me, kissed me, rubbed all against me. That was a very erotic feeling. It was nice. I then proceeded to do the same for him. While it was a nice experience, it was nothing earth shaking. While in searching this sight for that one person to be my friend/lover, I have come across many different types of men. Some too forceful, some run away when it gets to real, some in denial when it happens, but mostly I come across guys who want to please themselves before me. While it has been dissapointing, I have not given up hope. I keep hoping that next guy I chat with who is "wooing" me will be "the exciting one."

FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

9/26/2005 11:48 pm

Congrats, Mrs Red!

I wish you both the best of luck in your adventures! And, don't worry... you'll find a guy who has all the makings of a perfect FWB! I'm sure of it. So, keep searching! And, keep us updated!



Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/27/2005 2:03 pm

Hey MS Red

Seek and Ye shall find!

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/27/2005 6:49 pm

Thanks you to
I am having fun in the seeking for sure. This doesnt mean we have given up the couple thing, it is just moving much slower. Hubby is enjoying reaping the rewards of me having fun. And to think, 2 months or so ago, this was so not my thing.

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