Frustrated with all of these local blow hards.  

bigjulz01 52M
13 posts
11/29/2005 8:43 pm

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Frustrated with all of these local blow hards.

What's up with all of these people locally who say they want to get it on but fail to follow thru.
So many people in the Lexington area are members of the site but when you try to contact them they clam up, turn cold, play with you, stand you up or worse. Are you afraid? Did you bite off more than you can chew? Does having a partner scare you? (That's a subject for another blog.) Someone tell me what is up.
I talked with some friends from afar who invited me down (long as drive to them for some sorry sex), and they told me that they won't even answer to local members near them because "they don't want anyone that they may know know thier sexual exploits". HELLO!! Ain't that the premise of the site in the first place, for people with similar likes, fetishes and fantasies to get together and enjoy them with each other. Why don't people trust each other anymore. And what the hell, if you are in the life, you are in the life! That's what the site is for. Anyway, with the size of a town like Lexington, ain't nobody gonna give a big gaod damn who you are fucking in the privacy of your own home or hotel. Give me a break Central KY. Come out of the 50's and grow up and become a town in the new milleneum of society.
Some one from here please chime in and explain it for me.

2KYGysLkng4more 39M/57M

12/1/2005 5:43 pm

You hit it right on the head ... and it's not just locals. There are lots of guys that hit you up on email and you swap message after message and photo after photo and then when it gets down to fish or cut bait, they disappear into the ether of cyberspace. I don't know if it's because they are afraid to actually "come out" whereas they can hide behind annominity on the web ... or whether they only communicate when they are hot and horny and then they beat off and lose the need for gratification. Worse yet, are the guys that lead you on and make a date ... and you drive 100 miles to meet them and then they don't show up! How fucking inconsiderate is that!?! If *I* say I'm going to meet someone, they can take it to the bank unless I'm dead.

luv2eatu22000 67M
2 posts
12/14/2005 9:22 pm

I am new at this and finding out the same thing. I just divorced a few years ago and now have the time to do what I want. Maybe it is because of my age I don't know. I'm a 56 y/o male and if I get the chance to suck a big cock I will be there and race is no problem. As a matter if fact I have always wanted a black one hard and full...

rm_chivon2004 44F

3/8/2006 4:27 pm

Well, let's just say you were not dealing with a real woman. A woman knows exactly what she want and she gets what she wants. Focus on how she replies, read between the lines, and then you won't set yourself up for failures or be annoyed. You have to make sure she really want to be a sex partner or is she just spamming to pass time for her parents or maybe hubby gets home. I know, wanting to have some hot sensual passionate sex is on your mind, mines too,but you do have to make sure it's for real. I don't like wasting my precious time as well. Sometimes going outside your city is best, because if you are good as you say don't need any strange lurking around your stables, if you know what I mean. Bigjulz...I emailed you, what do you think?


bigjulz01 52M

3/9/2006 4:34 pm

I think you are right. People usually show their real colors pretty quickly. The people in Lex. seem to be hung up on something. Probably my sign. other. Oh well, I like your style. Maybe we can arrange a hook-up sometime.
See ya.

jstfckm 54F

7/2/2006 4:10 pm

I just joined and would very much lick (I mean like)to meet you.

bigjulz01 52M

7/2/2006 11:31 pm

Well Thank You very much 'jstfckm' for the response. Being a standard member makes it hard for me to contact you back. Hit me on here with a email or hit me at julz465200 on the 'hoo to get at me. Hope to hear you soon.

discreetAlpha 49M
1 post
7/6/2006 12:42 pm

I thought I would weigh in on this topic. I am completely new to this site, actually its the first anything on the web other than business. I'm married and bored. I love my wife but she doesn't have the limbido that I possess! I have contacted numerous people through this site with absolutely no response. It seemed to good to be true but I joined any way. I understand that everone has individual preferences but I thought at the very least there would be a response - Maybe a normal guy is not what people want. But obviously showing a picture of a large dick doesn't work either. I'm feeling quite idiotic for ever believing in this site let alone paying for its services.

ridethemonster 45M

7/12/2006 7:02 pm


I'v been on this site for over 7 years and never once has a woman wrote me back to meet, spent too much $$ on this site no more!!!

Could have gotten 5 hookers for what I wasted here over the years.

All these woman who want to fuck anything that moves then you write them and they never talk back.. pisses me off to wink someone and have them wink back then spend money to write them only to never get a reply.

I think these sites are a big cash cow and rip off ppl...
I think if you pay to write someone who dosn't write back, you should get a refund....

Ride on..

herekittykitty42 53F
4 posts
11/23/2006 5:39 pm

Well I would like to add my 2 cents.... I must be on a different site because i have found nothing but success. Anyone I have contacted to meet has always been there. I have meet alot of fuck buddies as well as friends here and I'm just a standard member... Maybe it's a female thing and/or maybe how you present yourself.... Just wanted to share.

ladywaiting40 65F
6 posts
12/29/2006 5:38 pm

Hey baby, YOU are the one who backed out tonight!!!

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