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I am on vacation
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Apr 16, 2012 1:11 pm
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In Vienna...the one in Austria, not in VA...LOL. Typing on my netbook sucks. Having fun, even though I am sick. Need more soup! Later 'gators
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Is it Friday Yet?
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Feb 6, 2012 6:42 pm
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Generally, I love my job. If the rings of Internet fraudsters in Eastern Europe and China would take a fucking day off...I'd stop dreading going into work lately.
Much more of this, and I'll have to start looking for a new job because the acid is wearing a hole in the lining of my stomach. A bit of sleep would be good too.
I'm looking forward to the day when I can retire with my potter's wheel and spend the days elbow deep in mud. Either retirement or a winning lottery ticket, either way...it's all good.
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It's official
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Feb 5, 2012 8:41 am
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I just got called a bitch today in private chat. First, I apparently am not a fast enough typist. I was composing an answer to a question when he jumped out of chat (ostensibly, for my lack of response, which was like 10 seconds).
So I posted the half sentence I had so far written. Predictably, he re-entered the chat whereupon I informed him that he was too impatient, wished him a nice day, and exited myself.
We all know about having the last word, so I was the recipient of one and it was:
"Bitch"
Speaking of last words....Fool.
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New Year, New Me
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Feb 4, 2012 7:08 pm
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It's been awhile since I've posted in this thing. I'm going to turn a new leaf and try to get into some trouble for a change.
Get out of this rut and stir it up! What do you think? LOL
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Game Players and Posers
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Jun 12, 2009 7:10 pm
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Well, now I remember why I protested so loudly that I wasn't looking for the last couple of years. I am intolerant. I cannot tolerate anyone who is not real and sincere.
So many people on this site bitch and moan about the "Fakes" here. I agree. Now I don't think that my "fake" is the same as their "Fake."
People put on acts here. They hide behind a screen and a keyboard and the pretense takes over. Now, don't get me wrong...every single one of us is someone different online than we are in real life. Even if you are mostly the same...there is a freedom in this medium. Nobody really knows us and the only ones in our real life are the ones we let in. Online we can say and do uncharacteristic things.
The posers are people who put on acts. They dig out their dictionary and use the big words. Unfortunately, they don't use them QUITE right and out themselves. They lie, they pretend, they pose.
I had one guy who pretended he was some sort of fantastically eloquent master of seduction. You know the type...bad lines of choppy references to body parts and motions that might possibly allude to sex and intimacy. Awful stuff.
I cannot pretend. Simply can...not...do...it. I had to ask him if that every really worked. And I called him out for putting on a lame act.
As you can imagine, it went over VERY well.
Then there are the game players. The ones who just can't come out and say it like it is. Back and forth...forth and back. A lot of if's and Maybe's and thinking that they're teasing and tempting.
Frankly, I find it just damn irritating. Say what you have to say. If you have a question, ask it. Have a freaking conversation...
Maybe I'm some sort of freak....oh well.
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Seriously?
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May 19, 2009 4:39 pm
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So I got a response from my "professional man" and it totally cracked me up:
Sweetie, How about if I show you instead? Dinner and a walk on the beach to start? Bob
Bwahahahahahahah...Totally cheesetastic! Which is what I told him in my response.
I believe I asked for "original and genuine." What you think?
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What doesn't work....
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May 16, 2009 2:07 pm
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So, I was right when I began to suspect that rumors of my true nature were circluating and all were warned what would happen when they attempted to contact me.
The sad thing is that they didn't learn that it wasn't EVERYONE, it was the sad posers, losers, and rude assholes. I didn't post the genuine, nice, interesting emails as those deserve privacy.
Anyhoot...back to my original purpose...I received the following email:
If you're seeking a fun loving professional man who can be good in public but ever better in private...then I'm your man!
I'm a man who desires that physical, emotional, and intellectual discoveries be equally powerful and satisfying. You know someone with whom I can trust and that adds a different dimension to a relationship; one that includes pure and unadulterated enjoyment of each other as individuals - each being every bit as thrilled at the other's single accomplishments as they would be if they were their own.
If that interest you in any way...drop me a line?
Can you tell why this would not be successful with me or any other discerning woman on the planet?
Discuss...
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Back Home
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Sep 28, 2008 6:05 pm
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I am back in VA, so all of you yahoos who hotlisted me because I was a local to you in NC can delete me now.
Also, back on dialup for awhile, blechy.
Turned off the profile, going back to being myself.
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I have a boo-boo
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Sep 17, 2008 6:47 pm
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I broke a tooth today. Having a dental emergency when you're not home is kinda scary.
Thank goodness for Dentalworks. I figure that chain dentists offices are alot like critical care physician's offices...much preferred in an emergency!
I had to get a crown..well a temporary one until the real one is ready in 3 weeks.
With everything else that is going on in my life this does suck, but not as much as it could have.
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This is all so depressing...
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Sep 7, 2008 8:57 am
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This is why I don't go out to bars. The whole man/woman interraction thing just freaks me out. Hence, my single state at my advanced age.
Granted, here, in an anonymous forum where men believe that we're all a sure thing, it's magnified.
I went into the Carolinas chat room for the first time as a (semi) local and found that more than half of the men who greeted me included their location in that greeting. Somehow, I find that vaguely insulting.
Proximity does not make you attractive. In fact, shoving that into my face makes you less so.
The whole thing makes me so weary. Don't assume anything about what I'm looking, or not looking for here. No matter what, I do have some standards.
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A Charmer
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May 25, 2007 10:36 pm
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Well, I got a lovely email tonight and thought I'd share it. And I quote directly:
"Your on the wrong sight! You need to go to "LA LA LAND.COM" tHIS IS WHERE PEOPLE ARE LOOKING TO HOOK UP(fuck) gET MOVIN"
This post brought to you courtesy of broncodelta, a 49 year old man in Blacksburg, VA.
Apparently, he believes that any woman on here within driving distance is obligated to want to have sex...preferably with him. Did I mention that his status is "separated." Why am I not shocked??
Just thought I would share this. In case you're a woman and thought about approaching this guy. Truthfully, doncha find guys like this more scary than anything? He might be able to fake it for awhile...then turn on you like a one-eyed snake.
Buyer beware.
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Turn offs
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May 6, 2007 8:56 am
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Counting down:
10) Bad grammar...sorry, can't help it. I know we all accidentally mis-spell once in awhile, but if I need a translator to understand what you are trying to say...urgh.
9) Being overly submissive. That's not my thing, so I don't want you calling me "my queen" or talking about serving me. I am not looking for a lapdog.
8 ) Expecting me to be a mind reader. If you have something to say, say it. I suck at guessing stuff.
7) Impatience. Don't expect me to meet you after 2 emails. I might exchange IM at that time, but not phone numbers. I REALLY need to get to know you.
6) Intolerance of others. Everyone has their "kink" and I figure if we're all adults and nobody is getting hurt (unless they want to) live and let live. If you have problems with gays or bisexuals or trannys then you're eventually going to piss me off.
5) Lack of a sense of humor. If you take everything to seriously, we won't get along. However, if I find your sense of humor is mean-spirited and at the expense of others, I probably will stop talking to you.
4) Ignoring my preferences. I can't begin to tell you how many arguments I get into with men in their 20's who feel it necessary to tell me that I'm being a bitch because I am looking for someone older. That I'm arguing with them because of this illustrates WHY I have this preference.
3) Being disrespectful of me, my friends...or of anyone else for that matter. If you decide that you want to draw attention to yourself by being an ass...I'm not interested.
2) Addressing me with overly familiar names like "honey" or "sweetie" or "babe" or anything else of that ilk. I'm going to lump the lame pickup line in with this as, to me, it pretty much falls under the same category. It's false and insincere. Just talk to me normally and be yourself.
And my #1 turn-off...((drum roll))...
1) Photos of your "equipment" on profile or emailed to me. This also includes trying to get me to view your NastyCam (TM). I really don't need to know you that well right off the bat. I really don't care WHAT your dick looks like...I know what a dick looks like. Put it away and dazzle me with your intelligence and wit.
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Discretion is the better part
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May 6, 2007 8:35 am
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OK, so I'm sure that some of my friends have stumbled across this profile, so it's not like I'm keeping a huge secret here. But, someone who is a regular in the chat room decided to start discussing this profile with me IN A PUBLIC CHAT FORUM.
Now, if I wanted to acknowledge this side of me at the time, I'd be chatting under this name. Maybe I am a bit strange, but there are time when I don't want to deal with idiots who think that if you're even slightly interested in finding someone, then you've gotta be interested in it with them.
So, if you see the other me in chat and say something about this profile, especially if you start hitting on me...be prepared to be cruelly shot down. 'Cuz I ain't in the mood.
If you want to approach me and get to know me better, do it HERE. If you aren't a paying member, you can still post on blogs. If you are paying then email me dammit...sheesh.
I am not on the prowl here, I am considering possible opportunities. I may or may not be interested. Don't get all excited, ok?
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