To tell or not to tell?  

bicuriousncute19 30F
15 posts
1/25/2006 7:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

To tell or not to tell?

Ok, have a question for anyone who is reading my blog right now.
I have been in this relationship with my bf for 3 yrs, everyting is great and all...I just have always wanted to b with another girl.
Now the question I ask is Do I tell my bf this? I dont want a 3some, or I dont really want a relationship from the girl either, yet I want... well what is it exactly that I want?
I dont even know how to explain it!
but if you have any comments on what I said...or if u understand any of it....leave me a comment!

freetime648 52F

1/25/2006 8:30 am

You want the fantasy of being with another woman....I would talk to your BF about this... he may understand...but you have to be true to yourself first!!!! Make sure it is what you want to do and is not just a passing fancy!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

evilgothgirl 51F

1/25/2006 8:32 am

oooo, this is an area to be touched lightly. Only you know how he will react.

Some men think it is great. Others do not have the stability to understand.

All of the advise you get, is just that,,,advise. You and only you know how to approach this subject.

I wish you luck

rm_hoop_102 55M

1/25/2006 9:48 am

I guess you have to realize if this just a passing fancy or the real deal. Your to have to be up front and explain it to your boyfriend. He may think of it as interesting or a shot at his manhood even though you probably don't mean it that way. All you can do is ask, good luck.........

Shelly_Marie 43F

1/25/2006 10:02 am

well, i would 'nonchalantly' bring up how you like looking at other girls, and see how he reacts...if he doesnt react like it is wierd then i would tell him more about how you feel. You probably feel like you want to slowly experience sex with a girl, starting with touching and then progressing to more. if your bf doesnt react badly then you never know, he might not mind watching. as a matter of fact...alot of guys would love to watch something like that...they would get themselves off watching that is for sure, or you would be in for the sex of your life afterwards! but take it slowly, dont rush yourself or you would feel wierd. I am bicurious too and never experienced it, and have been since i was about your age or a little younger.

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