the woman thing...  

bi1curiousgrrrl 49F
42 posts
4/15/2006 1:56 pm

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5/9/2006 12:17 pm

the woman thing...

Okay so here's the deal with my "bicurious" profile: I'm interested in the idea of exploring that side of myself. I'm definitely into men, but several years ago I had a menage a trois with my then SO and a friend of ours. It had been something he talked me into but I really got into her. I don't know if it was her or just the idea of her because she turned out to be a horrible "first time" lover. While that whole thing was a long, complicated, sordid story, I felt like it was something "unfinished" with my self. I've never been with a woman alone but I've had several crushes where I wanted to try it. My trepidation has always been in the approach. I didn't want to scare my friends off... I would ask strategic questions to elicit certain responses and it would always turn out they weren't sharing my vibe.

I love women but am not attracted to all of them. Nor do I want to have a serious/long term relationship with a lesbian lover.... at least... I don't think I do. I think, especially right now, it's curiousity, it's a part of my own sexuality that I shouldn't ignore.

I have to say too that I didn't realize how attention starved I must be. I know my (now ex) boyfriend hasn't paid much attention to me for a few months, but he's been around. I guess I didn't allow myself to feel it until now.

rm_LikUrPanties 59M

4/16/2006 9:13 am

I'm sure you will get winks and emails from other bi gals around here. Seems to be a vastly popular thing... LOL

But... years ago I use to go out with some friends in another state... a married couple. She was very bi. We'd be in a nightclub (just any ordinary club) and she would hit the dancefloor alone, and most always come out hooked up with another lady. Heheh... amazing.
Must be common too... because I've seen the same going on in regular night spots in Scottsdale and Tempe.
If nothing happens for you here... just go out and be open for attractions.

electrifyingtwo 52M/56F

4/18/2006 4:25 pm

We are a couple, she is bi and I'm straight. We enjoy the three in a bed scene, but no steady girlfriend thing. It's both fun and erotic, but it also can get messy. If you want to hook up with a couple for the "experience", make sure they are experienced. Many couples are really men talking their SO into fronting for them. Just be careful and talk things all the way through. Oh, by the way, Hi! We are in town too.

M & N

teasemepleasinly 63M
1 post
4/20/2006 7:39 am

You aren't doing it too wrong, to my mind. "Searchers" seeking other searchers, outside-the-box, are about as right as I might be quite wrong to assume holds true for you, just 'cause it is so in my own case! Search on! Seek, for your very own hearts desire is awaiting you somewhere, sometime! Sex sites are a new seeking I'm trying for this, my first time and , believe me: I might be wrong even getting onlinein this often seedy medium!
I'm lonesome, not just horny. I am quite more than just a little-bit horny: I am too long out of this man/woman interaction atttraction faction! Maybe it's out here in cyberspace and getting to know articulate writers like yourself would feel pretty right, for a start....
Afar off and safely anonymous in virtuality has got me curious grrrrrllll!
Your excellent at expressing yourself and I would like to hear more; tepid or torrid or heartfelt sharing with another is worthy of seeking, I think and I think I'd like to email with you, if you'd like?
Alas, sweet's pain in the ass to include email addresses, evidently and I'll have to figure later if back-and-forth, here at this site is all I get for free, but for frustrated, cyberspatial dyfunkshun!
Any advice on what the operations act like and do would be nice to hear fromy ou, too!

Peace out and have a sunny, fun day.
I hope to hear from you.
Peace & love & pass it on.....

rm_ladyhawke121 50F

4/22/2006 10:05 pm

I agree with you im into men as well and Im so curious what it is like to be with another woman it is not funny. I am not bisexual. I just am curious. 3somes have always been a great fantasy and I think until Ive had one then im not going to know if it is what suits me as a person. I am a BBW and think that most men and woman are turned off by my size 22. I have been looking for men who are interest in this size and funny there are not alot of men. So those who are interesting enough to talk to me are 60 in the shade and Im not into men who are that much older. I have had this thing all my life with men who are 20 to 30 years older than me and it started the minute I was 18 years old. I wish they would just go away and leave me alone. Sorry no offence to older people but im 40 not 60. I dont also want on the other hand men who are half my age. I like a man to be worldly and mature. Thanks for allowing me to share and you sharing.


BOBnROSE4BiFem 61M/48F
3 posts
4/30/2006 3:07 pm


We like electrifyingtwo are also a couple, I am bi and my husband is straight. I like you have had the experience and don't feel that I have really explored it all. We had a great time with one woman and she and I became friends. It was the first time for both of us. However, it only lasted a month. Still not sure why.

The second time was with a woman more experienced than I. It was fabulous, but also short lived. When we told her old plans to move to Arizona, she ended it.

We have made contact with several woman here in Arizona, but they never seem to get past e-mails. Most are in Phoenix and that is a long drive.

Not sure if I helped, but sometimes it's good to know that you are not alone.

I wish you the best of luck,


rm_ladyhawke121 50F

5/1/2006 4:24 pm

Well why dont you ask some of us to meet for coffee and see where it takes us. Im sure if we are sexual attracted to each other then we can go back to your house and have some fun. It only takes a good person to enjoy the most erotic experiences and they dont have to be great looking or some who has a perfect body. Just someone who turns you on. What turns you on about the experience with a woman. I would love to have a woman eat my pussy. How erotic is that. But I dont know whether I could do the same. But in saying that Ive never been licked by a woman and I think when you are turned on by erotic stimulation you could achieve anything. So go and ask some women on line and then see what happens. Meet at a nutural place have a play and enjoy yourself. I hope no one on line judges anyone because it takes all kinds of people. If you enjoy it try it. Hope this has helped. Oh by the way be brave just go out and do it.

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