Who We Are: Does Size Really Matter?  

beta971 58M
39 posts
7/1/2006 9:17 am

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7/18/2006 9:19 pm

Who We Are: Does Size Really Matter?

An interesting phenomenon about dating and the differences between men and women, brings to mind the issue of our "parts." Specifically, men and their penis size and women and their breast size (or asses). When posting pictures with our advertisements, we very typically focus (to some extent) on these male and female "parts." However, on one hand, I have heard women - historically, and throughout the adult community - urge men to quit showing "dick pics" despite the fact that most of our pictures feature (almost exclusively) dick-pics. Now, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that if women don't want to see dick-pics, why do so many advertise for "hung" men only. And without photographic "evidence," how would they be able to window-shop for the size and shape that best suits their wishes? Men... we're an easier breed. We are more visual and we like to see "parts." Probably this is why we assume women want to see our parts as well. And this is consistent with the types of pictures women post to attract men; close-ups of breasts (the bigger the better, it seems), and tight-shots of a spread (often shaved) pussy.
This lattest poll will attempt to set the records straight on size: Men's penises and women's breasts.
Please take a minute to complete this latest poll. I would enjoy reading any comments you have to make as well. Please note that this poll takes into account the perspective people who are attracted primarily to persons of the opposite sex.
Thanks for your participation.
I'm a WOMAN and I prefer a "hung" penis
I'm a WOMAN and penis size really doesn't matter
I'm a MAN and I prefer large breasts
I'm a MAN and it doesn't matter what her breast size is


sunshinekzn 57F

7/1/2006 9:48 am

Size does not matter, skill does! Taking your time, giving pleasure to you both.


beta971 58M
12 posts
7/1/2006 10:37 am

Thanks for the feedback - good comments and feedback. I really appreciate your time and perspectives. J


beta971 58M
12 posts
7/1/2006 10:42 am

Another thought - if size doesn't matter and, as Entropicone2 says, "I know men have them and what's the point?" why do women send pictures of their genitals or secondary sexual features (butt, breasts, etc.)? Is it a natural progression for people on a sex site to send pics of their sexual "parts?" Do we assume this is what others want to see or is there another fundamental reason? Thanks for the comments!


beta971 58M
12 posts
7/2/2006 3:37 pm

I find the results of this poll most interesting of all. We seem to spend so much time selling our "size" (boob shots and dick pics) when it seems, so far, that at least half of the respondents don't seem to care about size one way or the other.


buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
7/3/2006 10:45 am

Male, voted doesn't matter, but it does. C cup or smaller is better by far!!


beta971 58M
12 posts
7/3/2006 10:28 pm

Buddhamike - thanks for your participation with these polls - much appreciated.


rm_wetndeep205 33M/33F

7/7/2006 7:21 am

size does matter, i dont really care to much for huge titts anything over D is not a turn on for me but it want keep me from fucking.


DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/9/2006 3:52 pm

huh? why are 'breasts' equal to 'penis'? that makes no fucking sense.

the question should have been directed towards pussy and pussy size. breasts are secondary sexual... your question is like comparing muscular a man likes a pussy to how tight a woman likes a man's pectorals!

can you redo this question so that it equates sexual organs to sexual organs?

or is the pussy something that has to remain hidden, and shouldn't be spoken of, for you?


DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/9/2006 3:53 pm

god damnit, that should read 'how muscular a man likes...' ha. oh well. =)


DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/9/2006 3:59 pm

    Quoting beta971:
    Another thought - if size doesn't matter and, as Entropicone2 says, "I know men have them and what's the point?" why do women send pictures of their genitals or secondary sexual features (butt, breasts, etc.)? Is it a natural progression for people on a sex site to send pics of their sexual "parts?" Do we assume this is what others want to see or is there another fundamental reason? Thanks for the comments!
oh. well, you're asking two different things, i think. size doesn't matter ultimately because what's good for one person is going to be 'inadequate'/'too much' for another. there is no standard for what is enjoyable, and what is not enjoyable. some people want that horse cock; others have their reasons for enjoying micropenises. likewise some men can't deal with 'honeypots', while others find 'vises' too difficult to navigate sexually.

women send sexual pictures because this is a sexual site. and no, women shouldn't send sexual pictures unless the guy says he's interested in them. same rules for men. not every dude is a horndog trying to collect pictures. and a lot of women don't want their first introduction to be that, either. both parties should make sure it's ok before doing so. network photos are a different beast. in my opinion.


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