benthomma 52F
2 posts
4/11/2005 2:15 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


While my husband was alive. I was loved, cherished, and sated every single day several times a day. Now its been 2 years and while toys are great the absence of warmth and responsiveness is "huge". How do you start feeding the hunger for the human contact without turning yourself into a whore?

Don't get me wrong, For the sexual sated feeling I have experienced before I would become a whore of sorts. But do I have to?

ccninja 42M

4/11/2005 9:01 pm

If human contact is all you need, I don't think you necessarily have to sleep with a man. You could always go dancing or become a "hugger", anything to get you more contact. I believe even small human contact is very important. It makes people a lot happier.

mr69200369 53M
1 post
4/13/2005 8:37 am

What you do is your buisness no one elses, if you have more than one lover to keep the heat then thats what you do. You only live once and what you do behind the closed doors is only what you have to live with not anyone else... You do what pleases you, nothing more and nothing less. Hugging is great butt it only is warm for a little while making love to someone who does not make you feel cheap will keep you hot along time... In mind and spirit. So make you happy no one else just you. ANd do not care what others may think its your turn to live.... You are alive again so have fun and do not hurt anyone...

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