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Okay, bombarded with questions about the blog thought I would answer them all simultaneously.. Q: Bella you were kinda harsh to that guy you called a bitch, thought you were submissive
A: Dont think I called myself submissive, but ok. Didnt post that I was very sweet, did dance with the poor slob (oops excuse me so sorry to offend) I am actually very polite and would never hurt anyone to their face. I posted what I thought, not what I said. Some poor sister of mine will have to deal with the spineless shell of a man I find it too much work and really I am too lazy to manuever in my limited experience someone who cant even ask for a phone number.
Q: Bella, you seem like a fairly educated (very educated but thank you I think) strong woman articulate woman why would it have to hurt?
A: Ummmm hmmmm, (long pause)Im thinking. Would you ask a gay person 'why do you have to like the same sex?' Ok, its like shopping at walmart with a mask on. Yep thats right, your here also and your judging my preference. Some 30 of you sent me pictures of your penis' (am I supposed to shake your hand, Im sorry I dont know the etiquette, lets ask miss manners) and your judging. Clearer answer, no it doesent have to hurt
Q: (from say as the previous) I can ______ and you can _____ and you will see that it doesent have to hurt.
A: How lovely, what you are offering. You have some latent Dominant tendencies, telling me what to do. Kind of turned me on you telling me what I will and wont like in bed. Difference between Dominant and Domineering. Maybe you would be less obnoxious in your everyday life if you ritualized your tendency to tell poor precious Bella what to do.
Q: Were you abused as a child?
A: Hmmmmm Really personal question. I know that this is Walmart, and the anonimity of it is like wearing a mask, but I really dont know you and cant believe you asked. I think it is cute that at some point in your past you took an intro to psych class and are therefore qualified to diagnose me as an abuse victim. My answer, I dont think people are submissive because they were abused, I think they are abused more frequently because they are submissive. There are some people who see fragility and softness and it makes them mean. (watch children play they sort out the submissives much faster) I learned early on to hide that at risk of being kicked or judged by bullies, well like you. Thanks for sharing
Q: Why are you so sarcastic?
A: I am suddenly not shy being at walmart because I am wearing a mask.
Response to Tame thy tension and Hammer: "Oh, thank you Jesus there really are decent men on this site. Yes, Robert was wonderful, and amazing. I know its been ten years and I need to move on. Actually kind of already have in that I was married since, disasterously I might add, to a therapist who needed to label his predecessor a sadist and me a dependent personality. Ok, I know I cant say his opinion was that off...but that wasnt all there was to the relationship. I think its only pathological if we had been dependent on violence for all of our communication.
Q: Why are you so shy?
A: I am on AdultFriendFinder soliciting a spanking, thinking not wanting to show my face is that I am balanced...
Q: How did Robert die?
A: Ummm kind of a mood killer question, thinking it didnt make me feel sexy to get asked that. But I do appreciate that it was asked respectfully. P.S. People die, it sucks but it happens.
Ok thanks for the questions. Bella
Oh, one last question...
"Where are the naked Bella lesbo photos?"
A: I posted a photo of my naked feet and my friends naked feet from another website., as a joke for all the people asking me for a naked photo. they really were mine, but AdultFriendFinder tracked it as a photo from another website and not from my c: so they banned it. I cant post it, but if you really NEED to see the feet frolicking in all their loveliness by request I can email it. (they are great feet)