She was very Gracious  

beewulf9 38M
452 posts
3/5/2006 6:58 pm

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3/10/2006 1:28 am

She was very Gracious

Just an update, today I saw the lady I sent the flowers to. She immediately gave me a hug and began to thank you profusely, telling me that it was such a nice thing that I did to send her flowers.

Things that I remember clearly from the conversation:

She said "It was so nice" multiple times

She said "She wondered who the flowers were from when they came into the store."

She said "She smiled so big when the delivery person said her name."

She said "That they look great in her apartment and that they brighten the place up."

Things that I remember from her body language:

She closed her arms and had them folded over her chest.

She groomed her hair, from time to time.

She was smiling.

She spoke with great warmth.

She spoke with her hand that occasionally wandered away from under her bodice.

She touched my hand before saying goodbye.

Things she did that made me feel a bit squeamish:

She was examining me, like she wanted to see my heart and motives.

That is what I saw and heard, can you help me decipher what it all means? lol

tillerbabe 55F

3/6/2006 8:20 am

Quit it!!!! You know did good!

FunandFrisky79 41M/36F

3/6/2006 4:56 pm

I have to agree with the other women... stop over-analyzing things, sweetie!!! You're in!!!

Again, I just wanted to tell you that I think it was sooo sweet what you did for her! You're an angel!!!

Btw, thank you for the beautiful compliment in your last post!

Sleeping Frisky


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
3/6/2006 9:21 pm

maybe she is nervous and flattered and unsure and happy all at the same time! i would be! i think those are good signs. . .

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/7/2006 7:21 am

It's good and bad... Arms folded is NEVER a good sign. It shows a boundary type of stance. Flicking the hair depends on if she were inside or outside (dealing w/ wind). Usually moving hair off the neck is a great sign. Moving hands don't mean anything. You try to get a girl to stop moving her hands when they talk... they wouldn't be able to speak... LOL Anytime, and I mean anytime, that a girl touches you, it's considered "on". She knows what your motives are... don't be ashamed of your motives. Great analyzing!

beewulf9 38M

3/7/2006 2:06 pm

Dear Guys,

I do agree with a lot of what you have said regarding -Steve, you are analysing way too much. However, considering my work schedule I am finding that taking time and dwelling on the lady I am referring to is a very nice distraction and so soothing.

Dear Tiller, Wohoo!!

Dear Lioness, Haha, I wish some days then I would be a little more understanding of what makes a woman tick. Most of the time I feel very clueless.

Dear Snatch, I hope they are good signs too. I am taking the signs as good.

Dear Aascrompn, The hair grooming was from out in, going down the strands of her hair. And thank you for the encouragement.

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