Dichotomy  

beewulf9 38M
452 posts
1/29/2006 4:43 pm

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Dichotomy


I am someone who reveres sexual contact. I grew up really believing that there is someone special for each us of us, and when you touch them sexually you are really treasuring their inner being. A bit romantic yes, but damn-romance shouldn't just be for women right?

What are signs of this? Well I know if I share with someone I want to be able to pay real close attention to them. Which teaches me how they are communicating with their body, breath, and eyes. So I take great pleasure in feeling their pulse quicken as my lips travel and linger on intimate places. Or prolonging a touch to tease and cause anticipation. And every touch communicates if: the touches can be lenghtened, the touches should be expounded upon, the touches need to be more hungry. (And yes I am stirred sexually thinking about these details).

But on the other hand sex can be trivalized. We joke about the subject, and make some very silly statements about the topic. I am sure that you can think of a number of jokes that just start with a rabbi, a greek, and a nun going into a bar. Or if you are looking for a specific joke you can search through Tillerbabe's basement to find the joke about a Seal blowing. I found that joke very funny.

At the end of the day is either position wrong? Is a more appropriate position in the middle?
I know I am trying to figure out my stand on the topic. Will you tell me where you stand on the topic?

Sister_Act_4_You 37F/37F

1/29/2006 5:35 pm

First of all, your initial thoughts....and, one presumes, what you would actually do....will win over the hearts of a million ladies, I'm sure.

As for where humour belongs? Well, yeah, we all make jokes that have sexual overtones and, if they're truly funny, that's cool. But more to the point....I like close intimacy with someone that I can laugh with as well. Okay, hopefully not at the wrong times; but, hey, that happens too! lol!


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
1/29/2006 6:24 pm

I am just confused by the whole darn thing!!

Purry {=}

Purry


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

1/29/2006 9:30 pm

stay true to you...

ROMANCE isn't dead.



*HUGS*

TTFN


beewulf9 38M

1/30/2006 12:11 am

Thank you MizzKitka. I hope so too. Thank you for your comment.

Louisa,

I agree with you about wanting someone to love and laugh with especially in bed. Finding that person you can trust to do both with is very special. lol. And if they do make a joke at a bad moment I hope that the joke is at least funny. Thank you for the compliment, and taking time to visit my blog.

Dear Purry. Thank you for leaving a comment. If I were to condense the post it would say; people either make fun of sex, or put it on a pedestal. Do you feel you are on one end of the spectrum, the other, or in between?

Candy thank you for stopping by once more to my blog. I am honoured. Thank you for your words, and I hope that when you share with that special someone they treat the intimacy with you in the same reverent way as you do.


pinkplaytoyz 49F

1/30/2006 2:50 am

being in tune with women isn't a bad thing, though some men might think so. But your partner is going to be thankful you're so considerate.


freetime648 52F

1/30/2006 6:43 am

You stand wherever you plant both feet....that is entirely up to you to decide....but I agree with Kitka...you seem to be very sensual indeed......


xx FREETIME648 xx


beewulf9 38M

1/30/2006 8:42 pm

Toyz I want to thank you for the compliment. I hope your partner is attuned with you.

Jez, thank you.

Freetime, very good advice about where I plant my feet. And thank you for the compliment.


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