Frustrated with young men/boys!!!  

beauitfulblonde 45F
11 posts
8/28/2005 10:58 pm

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Frustrated with young men/boys!!!


Can anybody please tell me why a man/boy that is 18 or so years old, could ever feel like a real man for a woman that is old enough to be his mom or at least his older sister??? I have a really hard time understanding this. Even when you tell them no thanks or hell no or even ruder after awhile they still have this thought that they can be the man that you need in your life.I realize that age is only a number and we shouldn't judge people by something as small as a number. I can also say this, I want someone that is at least in my generation, and when we have a conversation we are on the same page with things.If it's only a sexually thing that we both are able to understand each other's wants and needs. That we can have the same taste in things, same likes and dislikes or at least some of them in common.
I have talked to many people on this site and I have even found some really good frinds on this site. So please don't think I'm saying this about everyone, because I'm not... I just thought maybe if I had some feed back on this, that maybe I would know how to better deal with this in the future.
Thank you everyone for letting me vent on them...

beauitfulblonde 45F
1 post
8/30/2005 6:37 am

Thank you so much for your insight. I do believe you have a great point on that.


rm_rome211 60M
26 posts
9/30/2005 10:41 pm

I think your observations are correct. Some young men are quite brash and infantile. Bringing correction and instruction will be your greatest asset. What we need (men in general) is for you to tell us in a very subtle way that we are out of their league...smile. Especially at that age, our hormones are doing most of our thinking for us. Being a male, I know we are very simple creatures. We can only use one side of our brains at a time (unlike you gals...smile). So, take the higher road and speak the reality of wisdom. The next time you encounter this imbicilic frame of mind, quietly lean over to him and whisper into his ear, the question, If you could have me, why would I need you? I think the mere fact, you took him seriously and the fact that he would have to think about it, would be enough to shut him up...smile. Sorry for those moments us men are known to create...smile. I hope it was helpful to you.


givemeatry56 60M

10/9/2005 11:57 pm

You go girl


griztaz 41M
4 posts
3/20/2006 9:16 am

Contact Griztaz I would like to make direct contact with you, ???


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