I Need To Vent....  

beachlovinbbw 41F
165 posts
7/30/2006 3:21 pm

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I Need To Vent....

Okay I need to vent a little bit. I was supposed to go out with 2 guys this weekend. The first guy I've been talking to for probably about 3 weeks or so. We made plans, he was going to come down here, we were gonna go out to dinner, go to the movies and then take it from there. I didn't hear from him, so I decided to give him a call. He gave me some lame excuse and then asked me if I wanted him to still come down. I told him no and he seemed disappointed. Now the second guy I've only been talking to for a couple days after meeting in a group here on AdultFriendFinder. We seemed to make a very good connection and talked a lot on the phone. We had made plans to get together on Saturday(possibly) and we had made plans to definately get together on Sunday (today). Guess what I haven't heard from him either. I've called him, left him voice messages, sent him a couple text messages and sent him an email. I still didn't hear from him.

Now my question is......Why do men make plans and then just disappear and not call you? I mean if you don't wanna go out with someone why bother making plans in the first place? This second guy and I had talked about being stood up and things like that and we both agreed that a phone call to say you can't make it is just common courtesy...yet he turns around and does exactly that....not call. I mean even if there was an emergency that came up, it only takes 2 minutes to make a phone call and let the person know what's up.

This seems to happen a lot to me, and I'm getting to the point where I don't want to meet anyone. I'm not on this site to play games with people's heads. My time is much to valuable to play games. Maybe I should just stop looking for people on this site. Then I could prevent a lot of hassle and dealing with a lot of bullshit from the players on this site!

Any comments are welcome....If you're one of the 2 guys who stood me up this weekend......your comments are definately wanted!

figser90 39M
1 post
7/30/2006 5:49 pm

i am sorry to hear about your recent trouble. I am a 28 year old man that would not stand you up. Please send me a reply so we can talk on the phone.

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