It's been a long time  

bbwredhead71 45F
233 posts
1/1/2006 10:00 am

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It's been a long time

WOW, I just realised that it has been FOREVER since I last blogged on here. Sorry about that!
Nothing has changed in my life, other then that my husband and I are not doing well. We are trying to fix things, but a part of me is not to sure that I want that to happen. A small part of me. The majority of me wants everything fixed and us to be happy again. The sex thing is a MAJOR issue for me, and I don't know if he is going to be able to fix that part of him...

AnEdinburghGuy05 38M
52 posts
1/1/2006 11:02 am

If he's genuinely not interested (and from what I can gather It's been like this for a while), then you need to get it elsewhere.

Hopefully he'll give you his blessing. Maybe if the sex problem can be sorted out (even if that means you get it elsewhere) it'll relieve some strain from your relationship.

I Hope it works out fro you!


bbwredhead71 45F
58 posts
1/1/2006 12:24 pm

thanks craig, I appreciate the support.

fun4unme83 64M  

1/1/2006 1:43 pm

I was married to a BBW and we had a problem with sex also, except it was the other way around. I couldn't get enough of this lovely lady. She wasn't interested. Well, one thing lead to another and I finally went somewhere else, also to a BBW whom could not get enough. Needless to say I was found out and thus I am now divorced. No loss. If sex is the only problem, find it elsewhere, with his blessing, and work on the marriage. Lots of luck.

rm_lookn1947 69M
29 posts
1/23/2006 4:15 am

You need to find one of us who really appreciate big beautiful women so you can satisfy your needs. If he has a problem with that, oh well!

rm_mayhem_66 50M

1/25/2006 7:45 am

Sorry to hear about your situation, red. Hope you get it worked out or maybe i can help you work it out. Let me know and good luck!

Shayne838 53M/49F

1/31/2006 8:36 pm

I just woulk like you to know that you are welcome to move in with me if you need a place to stay and a man twice a day to kiss you all over and meet your deep needs, I will be here for you. Your husband is not broken, he is just not right for youl, been there done that, now I am free, and hopefully writing a future best friend and swinging partner that I will grow to love the more I know her.

jandk813 55M/55F

2/2/2006 11:19 pm

HI from a fellow Tampa girl with much the same interests. Although my husband is very interested in sex and we have a very active sex life, I too dream of a female encounter. I tried it a long time ago but have not been with another woman for a long time. My husband finds it exciting that I have such fantasies and encourages me to tell him details as to what I would do to the other girl and what I would want her to do to me. He participated with one girlfriend I had a long time ago but now I think he is mostly interested in watching. So far it is just a fantasy that I'm too scared to actually live out.

sweetoomph 39M
1 post
3/23/2006 2:10 am

Sorry for the blackout.I guess u've both of u talked the talk but the main problem is walking the walk.Call me doctor for a moment coz i'm juz about to give a prescription. The world is one so let's share it together.Talk it out with him, and believe you me ,it may sound anusual but remember that it may be impossible but it's kind a fun doing the impossible. All the best hoping it works out.

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