bbw33sable 46F
182 posts
7/17/2005 6:22 pm

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7/25/2006 8:29 pm


Yes..i keep hearing..the perfect man doesn't exist. But if he could...what would he look like? would he act? would he have a big dick? would he treat me? Well, here are some of my views of the perfect man:

He must be taller than me. I've dated shorties, and i don't prefer them..he as to be at least as tall as me if not taller. He has to have a nice hair cut. I prefer dark hair..but it's really not important. I like goatee, but again, it's not important..GOOD TEETH IS IMPORTANT..and a pretty smile to melt my heart. He can't be too skinny, i like a little chubbiness. But my cooking can work on skinny. he has to look good dressed up, or in jeans and t-shirt

He would like like i'm the only woman in the world, except his momma or granny if she's still alive. He has to be mannerly, open the door for me, involve me in his life, his work, his everything, he has to make me laugh, be able to talk dirty when we make love, and be able to carry on an adult conversation.

Dick size...hmmmmm......well..I like them average..not too big and not too little, those big 10 inchers can stay the hell away from me...unless ure gonna let me get on top first, and work my way down..and of course..he has to be clean down there..keep it trimmed, don't let the garden grow wild. Don't expect to be working all day, and come home and expect a bj without showering first. I wouldn't want u down on me without that fresh feeling...nor do i want to go down on sweaty cock.

He would treat me like a queen. Spoiling me me little phone calls to say he misses on my b-day..little romantic trips. Breakfast in bed. Vacations at the beach, buying me sexy clothes to wear for him.

Does this man exist????? I keep hoping and waiting patiently..but nothing wrong with having fun along the way

rm_big_swede 50M
18 posts
7/17/2005 9:38 pm

Would you like fries and a drink with your "Man O' Your Dreams".....

Well we each have our fantasies and fantasies are healthy, but after a while you have to live in reality. I'm not saying that there is not a man out there for you and that he may have some of your "Dream" qualities...but life and love is not a jewish deli or Burger can't always have it your way. I have a female friend who was just married.....I swear to God that I had to talk her off the roof several times because he didn't do this or he didn't do that. If things weren't going just right she was going to call it quits. I have no doubt that they will have a long and happy marriage, but if she threw him out the first time he left the seat up or didnt call her to wish her a good night, she would be missing out on a really great guy.

Please when sizing up (No Penis Jokes Please) your man....identify those qualities that are IMPORTANT to you....Cleanliness and good oral hygiene......I dont want to taste what you had for lunch and a gummy penis (I assume) is not very appetizing.... and those items that are NICE TO HAVES.... (IE penis size, wavy dark hair, gifts from Victoria's Secret)
You'll find your "Dream Man" is out there and that some of the items will drop off the dream list when you find that special someone..

This is Dr Phil signing off (Please pay the receiptionist on the way out)

PS....Is distance an issue with finding that special someone?

bbw33sable 46F

7/18/2005 1:38 am

distance is not an issue.........if it's meant to be..then i'm sure 2 people will find their way together

Masseur_0 41M

7/18/2005 8:03 pm

Hey, I found that Taco Bell has way more calories than burgers so I'm grande sizin' it these days...But I'm also building up a push-up regiment as one wants to be with a slob...

But in all seriousness I have to agree with the Swedish one. Once we find that person we can work with then things start droping off the list and we work more in reality.

But to get back to the non-reallity, I want a lady who makes me want to do all of those things that you mentioned. And I want her to appreciate them and know that they come from the heart. I try to keep tokens of affection current and like to suprise my belle with new experiences and different places to go, cutesy homemade cards and artsy photo collages of her in her junior prom dress ( that was more comical then romantic). But for me tokens are easier than opening my heart, only very few have walked those halls...

strokerr6977 56M

7/23/2005 4:27 pm

i like it all ,im not a cheater dont exspect this or that, like to do things together?
teeth thing im working on sorry

kyladykiller 46M

7/23/2005 8:02 pm

Im trying to convince you that I am the man you just described.....

rm_twocents65 37M

7/25/2005 7:17 am


there ae great guys out there! i've been trying to tell ladies that in the past, they just get over looked or are a little shy.

i'm 6'5, bark blonde hair, been told i have a nice smile, i like to involve my lady in the things that i do in life (as i would want them to do with me), i enjoy a good conversation, i make people laugh ALL the time, i open doors, ask if there is something i can do for you while i'm up (and you're sitting). i have about all that you look for except dark(er) hair and no facial hair. in short, good (if not great) guys are out there!!!

take care
jason -twocents

bbw33sable 46F

7/25/2005 10:45 am u want to get married? lol....thanks..u've given me hope

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