Where have all the Real Women Gone?  

bashfulhunk4u2 54M
16 posts
5/18/2005 10:38 pm

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Where have all the Real Women Gone?

Well, after reading a few blogs myself I thought I would give it a try and see what happens. Some of these blogs are very interesting and enjoyable. It lets me know that I am not the only one out there that is struggling to meet other friends to chat with and maybe more. It appears that a lot of people have forgot the meaning of the word "RESPECT" for others. It seems like a lot of people are just interested in playing games. It makes you wonder why people can not be honest and just be themselves and treat people how they would like to be treated. Life is too short to play the games that some people love to play. Is anyone else out there having the same thing happen to them? Where have all the real women gone?

bashfulhunk4u2 54M

5/18/2005 10:45 pm

Has anyone ever had someone pretend to be someone that they were not just to get you interested in meeting them, then when you met them, they were NOT who they said or what they looked like from the pictures that they sent you. I have had that happen a few times. It really makes you less trusting of anyone. I had one who admitted she doctored her pics just so I would be interested in meeting her. Needless to say I sent her packing in a hurry. If anyone will lie to you once, then they will lie to you again. How can you ever trust anyone like that. What has happened to honesty?

LeEnchantress 55F

5/18/2005 11:11 pm

I don't know bashfulhunk.. but i am feeling ya.. Yeah.. there's sadly a real lack of respect among alot of people on this site for other people. They will yahoo you.. then start hounding you for your photo... then if you aren't immediately forthcoming with that.. they'll start insulting you..
Hey. ... if i felt we were gelling i'd definitely be giving you my photo so you would know what i looked like when we met.
I also think there's alot of phoney guys here too.. They really don't want to meet.. either.. they've got someone on the side and this is just an ego boost thing.. or they are too scared to meet.... or they are just into colllecting pics and webcams....
Boy.. if this is a swinging website.. ... it seems more like convent.. cuz i'm not getting any from this site....
I really am quite disappointed in this website as a whole.. The blogs are fun. i've met some really cool people outside the country and far away online.. but apart from that.. really quite the waste of time.

JadedAngyl 33F
2 posts
5/18/2005 11:50 pm

I actually have a difference of opinion about the site. I've met quite a few people from here and overall found the experiences favorable. I understand where both of you are comming from, even have seen it. But it may be in who one is communicating with or the area one is in. I wish you luck in the future though.

oldrwomanforu 65F

5/19/2005 4:06 am

You hit the nail right on the head. RESPECT!!! Not only personally but for people's time. Endless hours of chatting and pic exchanging and then nothing. I won't do the endless chat thing anymore. Talk a few times and if things seem good I invite them to meet for a drink. If they start giving all kids of excuses I know there is something wrong and or there just too damned busy for what I'm looking for anyway.

Ecaffine 52F

5/19/2005 5:10 am

I`d say at least 50 % of the men on here are not on here to meet someone face to face.The hide behind thier profile and i`m sure when they first signed up on here the intention was to meet people but it takes guts to actually go out and meet a stranger and to take a chance by doing so.Then theres the ones that think they are all that and thier expectations are way to high and if they don`t feel a "spark " the first time they meet they won`t even bother getting to know the person.And of course theres the ones that think that every meeting has to involve sex.I meet people to get to know them to find out if they are what i would want to have sex with...i usually can`t tell be meeting them only one time.But thats just me....

rm_allusnine 56F

9/5/2005 7:40 pm

Its very simple. People lie about themselves on sites like this because they want to meet someone and hopefully it will be someone who also lied about theirself on a profile. I have met several men on this site that embellished on their profile about the actual size of part of the anatomy. Everyone as a sku'd perseption of how they actually look. Take it in stride.

rm_allusnine 56F

9/5/2005 7:43 pm

addendum to the last comment.
Real women exist. the only problem is that most men don't want a real woman that actually has a figure, most men want a "barbie" you know the type, huge up top, skinny everywhere else.

rm_ineedu4066 50F

11/23/2006 8:49 pm

amen to that allusnine real woman aren't barbie dolls..Real woman are out here waiting on real men...and bashfulhunk is a good man that i've chatted with for a long time i haven't had the pleasure to meet him YET..but would be honored to be a part of his life..if only as a friend...

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