travelingintexas: you like each other quit being stupid and stubborn  

barbiebunny 36F
6789 posts
9/16/2005 1:04 am

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travelingintexas: you like each other quit being stupid and stubborn

When we desire someone we get scared deep down at the same time. Instead of keeping it simple, saying how we really feel.. we get sideways, get annoyed, yell and scream to fulfill our fear that maybe they dont love us.

When infact, passion of this magnitude is a indication of something deeper. Traveling said this line to me and it is true. A lot of us are guilty at one time or another doing this. Kind of like turbulence in an airplane.. kinda bumpy, but eventually it all levels out. It doesnt change the care someone has, its just an overboil of misplaced good emotion and intentions.

So I implore you, if you find yourself in a similar heated situation , take a step back and really look at the intent. Then quit being stubborn and stupid and make amends and move on together.

Passionate people do this..which is better than the alternative of being numb. Remember try something new..KISS...Keep it simple stupid. Just nicely say whats ony our mind. We dont have a lot of time here. Good or bad.

Less effort in the long run

Its good to be...ME

ThumbChickStool 33F

9/16/2005 9:33 am

I'm guessing this came in handy in the last week. Now here's a thought: how can one be straightfoward (the realm of the mind) during a moment/conversation of passion (the realm of the heart)? I like to think of my self as sensible, but even I give in to emotion and lose rational thought. And without rational thought, one can't be straightforward.

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/16/2005 12:34 pm

Ok.. I have been in that swirling vortex much more than i care to admit. When u hear your voice get testy..stop.

Take a deep breath compose yourself. realize what u are doin.. think of flowers and puppies and rainbows..heck I dunno do whats best for you. But you can have rational thought and emotions. Sometimes u need to hold the emotional dam back a bit to think.. besides whoever is on the other end is extremely valuable to you..and worth the effort. We all are respoinsible for our actions.

Not our history, not our upbringing..we have choice. Now it may be a hard unfamilliar one but with practice it can be done. (im learning too)

Its good to be...ME

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
9/16/2005 6:01 pm

oh...if i could just have a little implant in my brain that strays me from that oh so fateful move.... <*<thumps head>*> oh just go throught with it why dont you!!!!

sunrise has had a few too many shoulda-coulda-woulda's!!!!

live more, laugh often, love much

DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/16/2005 11:10 pm

My Dearest Evil Twin,

I get the point. (kisses & hugs)

The Demon Spawn

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/16/2005 11:42 pm

Demon Spawn..
It was a hard lesson for me to take..only you have a second chance.. please learn from my misfortunes. I want you to be happy and as a closet romantic (im a U2 fan, commeon) see it flourish.

But something as a flower can bring much joy. (insert cryptic sentence)

Wet, girly Im xact same too lmao

Sunshine, I dont feel as alone..thank u again for warming me up.

Jezzie..ty im glad u found me xoxo
Trav.. wheres your cuffs?!

Its good to be...ME

DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/17/2005 6:10 am

(returns T's cuffs...sorry)

If nothing else, Barbie, the friendship has been salvaged and that means everything at this point. What happens from here...well, time will tell.

Bono is just damn yummmmmmmmmy!!!

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/17/2005 1:26 pm

Ty honni..that is my all time favorite U2 song.....ty so much xoxox I needed that.

Its good to be...ME

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