I love y'all here  

barbiebunny 36F
6789 posts
3/7/2006 12:01 pm

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3/10/2006 12:49 am

I love y'all here

Today im talking about blogville.

I've been pretty quiet on my usual antics of late and I noticed some interesting things about the nature of blogville.

A lot of people here love/care about other bloggers with sometimes unrealistic expectations. Some get in the trap of having to perform like a show pony every day teying to keep you entertained..long after theyre emotionally burnt out.

Some cant even be themselves anymore and speak their minds as theyre too afraid to hurt feelings, which was the real reason why there were here in the first place.

Now Me, I personally dont give a rats ass. If u get something out of my blogs, your entertained or what not..great. Im glad you came along for the ride. I love you all here and Im also capable of giving those I do care about here a long leash if they need some space. But they do know, if they hang themselves with it..ill be there to untangle em.

That goes for everyone I keep an eye on. Guy or girl or tranny.

Bout a year ago, I was in a real messed up place. Luckily I met some good friends here, not only loved me for ME but also encouraged me to get my shit together. They showed me patience as I went and hung myself only to rescue me. They saw me grow slowly back into the woman I needed to be. Im still not perfect yet, but without that kind of all encompassing love, I would not be alive.

So Im asking you.. sometimes we people as adults dont get our shit together overnight, but its a process of evolving over time...the good bad and the ugly.. sometimes that ugly gets to flow in your direction...but think of the greater love and good.

People of blogville are sensitive hearted, and please treat them ALL gently.

Or ill come over, grab my crop and whup your ass.
Love & understanding
*singing Kumbyyah*
Bunz



Its good to be...ME


rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
3/7/2006 1:43 pm

yeah, this place has been bloody great for me -- it's kinda weird how in the last year (and in 20 minutes it will be a year) how so many of my issues have slowly but surely been dealt with and dropped away thanks to genuine support (you were the first blog by a woman i watched, btw.)

i do find the nicey-nice a bit sickening at times, but after a blow out with one person on their blog, i realised i need to keep my blow outs on my own blog, in my own house, and in that space i do say whatever i need to say. i agree with you that it is better not to mince words.

as for entertainment -- i want to write everyday cos it is challenging. there are (few) days i don't write. i sometimes write to entertain, i sometimes write to think, i write for many reasons. but, yes, i have felt burn out myself, seen it in others. but -- well, i learnt in the last year how to deal with it, how to not let things get to that point, etc. i hope others will learn how to do that too!



[blog freelove999]


MyRealLoverOne 45M

3/7/2006 6:49 pm

now is smacking my ass a punishment or reward????


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
3/7/2006 9:13 pm

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JudeL5 46M
1534 posts
3/7/2006 10:12 pm

I think that life is a journey, not a goal... will I ever have my shit together *chuckle*. I hope that in the next year it will be more together than it is right now!

Two steps forward, one back......

....now do i get my ass whipped???? please???? *laugh*


bardicman 50M

3/8/2006 5:37 am

I hear you loud and clear Bunz.

Its time to rally the troops.



I am not dead yet


starlight_runner 39F

3/8/2006 8:17 am

Its funny.The worst culprits never even know they are doing it.

love as ever 2 pooky

kisses Star


kokopelli_123 51M

3/8/2006 10:22 am

Show ponies. Argh. Reminds me of dog and pony shows put on by marketeers. Come to think of it there is some similarity, both blogers and marketeers are selling. There are bloggers selling a persona just as there are sales reps selling the latest fad or widget.
Myself, I don't give a FAT rats ass what a person chooses to be because I can choose what to think of it all, but I have no desire to hurt anyones feelings.
Your posts are jewels Bunny.
Thanx.


SeekingFun337 63M/60F
657 posts
3/8/2006 10:23 am

I mentioned several months ago (in that previous blog life), that you had a unique talent in bringing together, and inspiring some really nice people into your blog. While open in your profile about your dominant personality, you bring a sweetness, and that openness combined with your compassion, and loyalty to/for others, is a winning combination. However, there are always times when the energy wanes, and the tide seems to go out, and then you need to come to us, here, for you.

I sense a bit in introspection.... are you really OK?

Now, about that crop, can I borrow it....

signed>
(Your unsubmissive)


AmberSolaire 41M

3/8/2006 2:56 pm

whup my ass eh.......are you sure youve got it in you bunzster? WEG

Amber


norprin5 55M

3/8/2006 6:05 pm

being a long way from the slots or top of the charts, it's easy to say whatever i want - almost nobody's listening anyway

i agree about the people here, though - i've made some fantastic friends here already

King Nor XVIII


tillerbabe 55F

3/9/2006 1:30 am

"Now Me, I personally dont give a rats ass. If u get something out of my blogs, your entertained or what not..great. Im glad you came along for the ride. I love you all here and Im also capable of giving those I do care about here a long leash if they need some space. But they do know, if they hang themselves with it..ill be there to untangle em." Yeah baybeeee! It's all about bein' your beautiful self! {=} Fuc the haters!

Great post...sometimes people forget! Love u 4 this! (and other things too!) {=} {=} {=}


SeekingFun337 63M/60F
657 posts
3/9/2006 10:36 am

tillerbabe.... I just don't get it... Why would the "haters" get that ... if you're gonna do that, then call some of us good guys... Gee whiz, no wonder the "haters" keep it up.... now, there's inspiration ..... (just kidding--- think ur great)


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
3/9/2006 4:16 pm

Seeking Ill explain it in a later blog this week.

Yes, I am big and strong enuff to whup the asses that need (or want) to be whupped!

I love u guys xo
Bunz

Its good to be...ME


zorgnot2 60M

3/9/2006 8:55 pm

Well said.Hats off and keep up the good work (in the full sense of the word).
Namaste


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