badkitt_sd 46
20 posts
3/16/2006 3:21 pm

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Keep practicing or you will lose it along the way. Live life for the moment. If you have lost it, keep working at strengthening it. I believe it is like a muscle that is capable of physical therapy and can grow strong once again.

I am a little disapointed with society these days. I have allowed the actions of others to bring me down and smother my passion. Well society, I'm starting to kick your ass and there is nothing you can to stop me now. I'm smarter and less naive than I used to be. Look out. Here I come.

rm_Stamina4u69 59M
1 post
3/18/2006 10:50 am

Way to be, baddkitt. Don't let others get you down. My 8th grade teacher kept telling us that attitude is everything. We were bored of it then, but he is right and you got it.

MONA_14 29F

3/19/2006 11:58 am

you are invited to be our Friends

wetandsandyman 36M
2 posts
3/21/2006 12:56 am

hmm sounds like you've got things under control but if you want someone to talk to...
I'm a good listener

axy2 41M
2 posts
3/25/2006 5:49 pm

The curse of the modern world. The more we progress the farther we seem to move away from happiness. The more answers we find, the more questions arise.

It is good to be filled with the spirit of fighting. But it is important to realize that there will be no victor and no looser. This fight is simply the beating of our heart to keep us alive in the meaningless universe.

From Asian religions such as Buddhism with a good balance between spirituality and modernity, we can learn that the best way to fight is to ignore and forget. Move on. Remember the delicious memories and forget the painful ones. Keep smiling, in other words.

This is, in fact, how animals tend to behave. Mourn for a few days and move on.

makeusqrt 54M

3/29/2006 2:42 pm

well said bad_kitt,spoken like the true capricorn that you are, and coincidentally I am too. Something tells me we have more in common with each other than we realize, time to get started on peeling back the layers and getting to know each other

rm_SDCurious69 29M
19 posts
4/3/2006 1:24 am

I'm looking out but I don't see you cumming.

rm_nemo732 55M
3 posts
4/7/2006 8:26 pm

All I can say is that I'm inspired by your attitude and optimism. You seem to be very health mentally and ina good place right now. Good for you. Seek to strive and not to yield, always keep learning and living the best way we can. Be good to people and hope they will return the sentiment. It's unusual to read such great thoughts from a lady on here. You give me hope.

axy2 41M
2 posts
4/23/2006 7:28 am

Hello badkitt,

Sorry for this late answer... I haven't been on the website for a while.
Since I last wrote my comment, I changed my mind (I keep changing my philosophies).
Now I think I agree with you. Sometimes you need to fight in order to win. Buddhism is not the entire answer. Nature is an eternal fight for survival.

In politics, I constantly preach peace. But war may be a necessary evil every now and then. Especially when someone is stepping on your foot.

rm_tigger8798 71M

4/24/2006 7:21 pm


We are each the product of our individual enviornment. As children if we are mistreated, as adults we too often follow that path. If we were blessed with a loving enviornment, as we grow we too share our love. As adults we interpret society and it's impact on us and our relationships much too often based upon our childhood.

So, as you have wisely said in a different way, as adults we so often have to stand up and face the actions of others and judge them from the history of our own enviornment and that can really bring us down and the only way out is to push through the muck that surrounds us, too often as depression, until we reach the clean, pure air of what we each believe and stand for; be that family, support of friends or from friends, or just love of life, depression be gone. You go girl!!!!!


rm_davidforsex3 43M
40 posts
7/14/2006 8:18 pm

stay strong and remember if you ever need anybody to talk too i will be the ear that will listen to you and be there for you my new friend i hope

zanzy619ster 47M

7/25/2006 9:09 am

All of you guys are full of shit!
Your on this site for one reason
To get a woman interested in you and possible sex!
Why dont you Share your wisdom Show your a nice guy Minipulate a wounded woman looking for answers!
Life is awesome except for predators like you guys
This site teaches me a lesson what people are like Makes me aware how deviant and minipulative people are Who do you trust? Anyone on here probably not?
So as far as why Im here Its addicting!!! I said it. Its educational on peoples underlining intentions. The internet sucks!!!
There are no answers here keep whats good in your life Temporary pleasure can bring a a lifetime of grief. I dont usually write anonymous blogs but you guys inspired me with your Bull Shit!! Like you really care Its not like shes a long time friend That youve been there for over and over

akwares 53M

8/15/2006 2:37 pm

zanzy619ster is probably "more" right than the rest of the responders. I myself was looking to fulfill a need just like Zanzy said, but was surprised to discover that after reading your profile, that I am not alone. In reading this blog of yours, I realized that no one really told you that, either.

Putting the "I'm here because I want sex" aside for just a moment, I just want to add that you should realize that you are NOT alone in this world, that your suffering is like what others have suffered, more than some, not as bad as others, and that only through sharing of experiences and supporting each other can we get through such difficult times.

You shouldn't be discouraged, though. Be who you are, do what you do, and grow with each days' life lessons. Don't worry about what others think of you. If you are true to yourself, you have no one to answer to but yourself. Turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones toward a wiser, and hopefully happier person. It's not just talk. I've tried to live my life like that, and I think I am happier and healthier because of this approach.

OK, now back to the subject at hand. When you find someone you can connect with on an emotional/intellectual level AND they are physically attractive, JUST DO IT! Enjoy the gift of sex, whenever and however you can. You can't do it forever, might as well enjoy it now while you can. With any luck for the rest of us here on this site, you will choose to share that sexy body with one of us! Heaven knows there aren't that many women here oozing with sexuality like you seem to have!

Best of luck to you!

SmileIamYours 54M

9/1/2006 7:25 am

Hey there badkitt, I already tried to say this in a recent email, but here goes again. You have the attitude about life and what we are here for in awesome perspective please don't loose that, because it’s the right way we should all be. We should hold our family, friends and the people we care about above us in our actions daily. By doing so disappointment is only a word and means nothing to us. Keep the positive attitude about life and who you are and you'll always be beautiful to me. I hope to be lucky enough to meet you someday, but regardless you can call me a friend who cares. Wayne

rm_today862 52M

9/25/2006 11:16 am

I want a women like you

rm_1_funguy 49M
16 posts
10/21/2006 9:24 am

The internet will either be the downfall of humanity or the restoration of the better good. The best part is it allows me, a man in the midwest to hear from a seeming intellectual woman like you in the west. Yes, we're all here for various reasons with the basis being sex but if you can't be positive in life, always have a smile on your face for some reason then it's time to find the right place, person and experience to keep you smiling all the time.


rm_funharry99 63M

10/22/2006 3:02 pm

You have the most intersting posting on this site. Having been around the block on two long term relationships,I've learned trust is vital, but very difficult to restore if lost. Close intimate relationships require trust, honesty and a desire to weather the storms that come in everyday life. Honesty, trust is not what you think it is until you are tested by events that shake your values, question who you are. You are in a such a situation. Good Luck.

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