what was i thinking?  

badgurl20001977 39F
75 posts
7/25/2006 7:54 pm

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7/27/2006 8:23 am

what was i thinking?

sunday i was one mad bitch. we went to wal-mart got somethings we needed for the house and what not. i saw this pretty nightgown there and thought hey why not. ok so we get home eager to try it on and the damn thing fits a little small and tight. i got it on and no i didn't tear the damn thing putting it on either. so i asked him (and this is where i went wrong) if he thought i should exchange it and with out blinking he said it wouldn't hurt. ok as if i wasn't feeling like shit before that helped. i told him that it hurt my feelings him not thinking about what he says just blurting things out. ok so i let it blow over a bit till we went to bed and he wanted me to lay next to him. well i really didn't feel like sleeping next to him and he made a big deal about it. i told him i needed a little bed space it's a california king and plenty of room for both of us but i was laying on the edge of the bed with him right up against me. that's when i lost it i just went off on him and no there was no violence just me really pissed off. we started talking and he's already forgotten our plans so i told him to read over his text messages and he'd know one of the reasons i was pissed. i'm just so blah right now it's not even funny. i even explained to him that he doesn't make me feel sexy at all.

rm_jamesnova 38M

7/25/2006 9:03 pm

Damn that's kind of harsh but I'm sure he didn't mean it like that. Honestly, he shouldn't have said it, he should have just taken it off and made love to you. As bad as this sound you shouldn't talk to him, you should just throw him down and get what you really want.

rm_phaedra64 52F
10 posts
7/25/2006 9:00 pm

My first question would have to be, why the heck didn't you try the damned thing on in the store, or at least look at the size on the label?? My second question would be, are you on your period?????? You asked a man for his opinion, he gave it, just because it wasn't exactly what you wanted to hear, I'd not blow a gasket over the whole deal. At least he was honest, give him credit for that. Perhaps ya'll should've done some talking BEFORE you went off on the poor guy, communication is an important factor in ALL relationships.

I'm not trying to be rude or obnoxious here, but, men can't read our minds, never have and never will be able to perform that feat. NEVER go to bed angry with each other, it solves nothing.

And stop shopping at the evil empire of wal mart, have some taste and pride in yourself hun.

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

7/25/2006 8:44 pm

Gosh hate to put myself in the males position but why not? This post as it is in it's entirety is about a man that could guess your thoughts? It is about you, not meeting or compromising and indulging on what you both want or need. I think any healthy relationship deserves that. Hell it is a given. I'm not attacking you, please don't think that....here, hell I like to wear things that women enjoy. If I don't like and they don't like it, then I'm all for not wearing it, and getting something we both enjoy. I do also think that the words that you are looking for, is hell take the damn thing off you look a hell a lot better. Yet honesty cannot replace what we want to hear. At least you have somebody honest..don't rant about that appreciate that. I could be well wrong, but that is okay, we all are different, but it is the healthy relationship that will last. That is what I wanted to focus on here about.

Thanks for reading my words.

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