I wonder why....  

babysgotblueeyez 53F
1035 posts
8/15/2006 5:20 pm

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8/18/2006 9:46 am

I wonder why....


I guess I'm not much of a liar and manipulator and I'm really beginning to genuinely dislike people who have the capacity to lie, manipulate and play others. Don't get me wrong, I understand this is a sex & swingers site,K? But, cripes, does everyone think it's normal and satisfying to lie and manipulate others and their feelings?? I don't understand the desire to use deceptive measures to manipulate people and their feelings. I can't imagine what kind of power or good feelings someone gets from those kinds of untruths and manipulations.....I understand some people here just want to get laid and if they are honest about that, so be it...But why say things that indicate there is a desire for some type of a relationship and have it all be a web of lies and manipulations to get laid....Am I making any sense? I'm tired, cranky...crabby...tired....

Don't let your past dictate who you are but let it part of who you will become.

~Blue~


jaimeOOO69 52F

8/16/2006 3:15 am

I joined this site thinking people could at least be honest in here. But I found out quickly that wasn't so. I still expect people to be honest with me after meeting them, because I am honest with them. But there are the game players who are unsure what they want. The only person who I had the same problem, as you wrote about, was the first man I met from this site. It took him three months to come clean, at Christmas. He spoiled my holiday that year but at least it was over.


babysgotblueeyez 53F
357 posts
8/16/2006 7:01 am

Jaime:

And ya didn't kill him?? You're more kind that I am....

Don't let your past dictate who you are but let it part of who you will become.

~Blue~


irishtongue71 51M

8/16/2006 3:29 pm

I hope it's not you that's being hurt here....I do hate to see that kind of stuff happen.

As I've said I'm still on for the WiFi, but I haven't heard anything back from you so I didn't know when you wanted to do it.....

IT


jaimeOOO69 52F

8/16/2006 4:53 pm

Blue, that man did the best thing for me. I became brave and went into the greatLakes chatroom. 30 days after the breakup, I propositioned,you know who,LMAO! I got much more than sex with two men, I found my best friend!


biandhornyinWI 47F
157 posts
8/17/2006 1:37 pm

I remember when my dad went through a low period and got depressed about not having a social life that I encouraged him to go online. Oh god, that was a terrible conversation, one never to have with a parent... anyway.... I encouraged him to do that to meet new people. His comment was that he had tried that, and then said "Do you know people LIE on there???" Ummm... duh... not my thing, but more commmon than not.


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