A perplexing dilemma  

babysgotblueeyez 53F
1035 posts
7/6/2006 1:06 pm

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7/7/2006 4:51 am

A perplexing dilemma

So I'm just going along, living my life and minding my own business when the ex emails me wondering if I want to hook up. Mind you the sex with him was AMAZING, outstanding, mind blowing... but he was also an abusive, lying, cheating,amoral bastard without a conscious.... He completely destroyed my sense of self, my confidence and my ability to trust myself....Not to mention my ability to trust most of the male species for a very long time...Am I completely nucking futs to even consider knocking boots with this man??? Someone HELP ME!!!!!

Don't let your past dictate who you are but let it part of who you will become.


sexymamma662003 31F

7/6/2006 1:49 pm

i wouldnt do it if i was you.

if you do go and have sex with your ex it may show him you are still interested in having a relationship with him.(wich by the way it sounds you dont) and sleeping with him again can only cause more problems. old feelings may come back and it could take you back to looseing yourself and losing what confidance and self respect you got back after leaving the loser.

no how great the sex is with him you need to ask your self this: why did things end to begin with? remind yourself and stay away from him


buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
7/6/2006 1:51 pm

You can't find someone else to do? Why even take a chance on going there? I know this violates the guy code, but I just can't help it.

rm_sbffv 63M
194 posts
7/6/2006 6:50 pm

You have my number .... call me and I will talk you down from the ledge.

kittys4me2 53M

7/6/2006 7:45 pm


Bad Idea!!!

Go get the toys out.Put my name on it and go to town,but DON'T go to the EX!!!

Its just like sexymamma662003 said. I am a guy and i agree %10000000

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