Safe Sex!  

avgjoe19602 56M
189 posts
6/7/2005 9:37 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Safe Sex!

It has come to my attention in watching comments that I have read on other blog posts that there are concerns in our community regarding safe practices in the “meeting for sex” world. I was even concerned after posting part 1 of my recent “shopping for sex” story that some were under the impression that the story was an account of an actual encounter. Therefore, I was careful to reveal to the reader that this was fiction with the ending. It’s still an erotic story that reveals many things about who JOE is and no one complained that I had been a fraud in making you believe that this was a real encounter. BTW: thank you all for your wonderful comment’s, I am truly humbled by them.

It does have me thinking however that an encounter of this nature would not be a safe thing for anyone to do. There are many reasons that are obvious.
It is not wise to have sex with total strangers. It certainly is not wise to have unprotected sex with total strangers. Women especially should be careful when they are working through the process of a first meeting. I personally believe you should never meet the first time in person with the intent of having sex then and there. Further, you should meet in a public place and if possible one with some security built in. Most of you ladies are very smart about this and you need no instruction from me.

The scenario described in my story is a very seductive scenario though. I would love to have this encounter. Based on the comments, I think others would too. So how can it be accomplished safely? Again, obvious to me, that this is the sort of thing that is best done with a partner in which you have developed a good deal of trust. It is an excellent role play scenario. The whole thing can be planned out to the finest detail. Or, a loose structure can be planned and the details of how it will unfold can be left to spontaneity. In my opinion, this is safe, very erotic, and something that will likely be remembered just as well, if not better, than an encounter with a stranger. So, here is the question.

Does safe, role play encounters of this nature appeal to you? Have you ever participated? Was it really hot and exciting?

Finally, and I am just curious, has anyone ever really had an experience like this with a stranger? I expect that there may be some affirmatives to that question. So, did you worry for your safety and how so?

InquiringJOE


rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/8/2005 6:03 am

When I meet a person off the internet, safety both physical and sexual are very important to me.

1. Physical safety.
I have multiple safety tools in place for physical safety, even if most fail at least one or two will work (not disclosing my secrets), never had any incidents of even being threatened.

2. Sexual safety.
I only proceed to have sex when I have good grasp of how safe they are to be involved sexually with. Takes me less than 2 hours to figure this out, through regular "nothing meaning" conversation, nothing sexual at all. People often times do not have slightest idea that innosent things we are talking about is actually unfolding their sex life and attitudes to me. Got to love psychology, was always very good at it.


rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/8/2005 5:23 pm

LOL, avgjoe19602...you are very good at reading me...


JuicyBBW1000 54F

6/9/2005 2:18 pm

Well Joe I am learning my lessons trust me. I have now installed a chasity belt on my puss and the only way to earn the key is to earn my trust first and my respect second and that will take more than several chats and phone calls and the like from now on.


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