Sex while signigicant other watches.. Is it fun/worth it?  

averysexymaninca 45M
15 posts
3/10/2006 1:43 pm

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Sex while signigicant other watches.. Is it fun/worth it?

Question: How many people think that it is hot to watch their significant other have sex with another man/women? I have often thought about it and often fantasize about my GF with another man during sex but have never actually done it. For those of you who have done it was it hot? Would you do it again?

rm_demi3571 46F

3/10/2006 2:52 pm

It was a strange feeling.....I'm a very jealous person but I wanted to see my husband do another women infront of me for a long time now....
After thinking about it for a year we decided to go all the way and meet a couple, so when it actually happend and I saw the other girl giving my husband a blow job and seeing him fucking her from behind, my feeling were strange, it was jealousy and exitement all together, I loved it! .....Now my jealousy is alot better and the exitement is great! I guess it all depends on your relationship with the person your with that makes a difference.
Our relationship has become stronger ever since.

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
3/10/2006 3:20 pm

Aw, im a luck girl (using the term "girl" loosley, hehe) mate and i have done it both ways, still do in fact. Currently its "treats" for me time ..... sometimes another man ... sometimes mfm play ... he loves for me to enjoy .. i feel same when we did fmf ... so happy for him .. and we both find it highly!!! Erotic!!

The 2 of us sex it up for hours after every "treat"

DevilDiva818 40F

3/12/2006 10:42 pm

If you're seeking it as a way to increase pleasure, that's a wonderful motivator, but to "enhance" a relationship would imply something is lacking, and that's where bruised egos come into play. The best way to explore that possibility is in a "scene" party w/couples who have much experience in that type of sharing, and who could guide you, provide advice, and even gague whether or not you and your girl are ready or appropriate for such a thing. Thelast thing anyone wants is to see another couple get hurt, since it spoils their own fun. I've been active in the scene for a few years, and would love to be a guide.

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