Do some female members get inundated with emails  

attheshoukan 43M
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3/6/2006 4:12 am

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3/6/2006 10:45 am

Do some female members get inundated with emails

I am currently travelling - In India at the moment. As such, with a little free time, I log on to this website and have a bit of a browse...

I know that the odds of women getting more hits is large - that is part of the course with this website.

However, one thing does amuse me - women with photos that dont show their face, but who ask for a face photo before replying to any email that you may send.

It is more than fine to have a photo without your face. It is also fine to request a photo. However, one particular member said on her autoreply that she hoped that I had sent a face pic with my initial email, otherwise it would be deleted.

Again, it is that member's perogative to stipulate the conditions that she wants. Also, I have just sent the email to her (I admit!), and I am sure that she is a fun person to be with (as the testimonies on her profile say).

My question is, why is it that some members get inundated with emails, and other (like me!) are more than unlikely to receive any emails! Just curious....

Anyway, back to work!

1973GAL 43F

3/6/2006 5:07 am

Men are more visual in terms of body parts...women need to see the whole picture before venturing out to the meeting...I always feel better if I have seen a pic of the guy who I wish to meet--just puts me at ease I guess...and when guys chat with me, they can see my picture of my face as well

It is tough for a man to get alot of replies--That I have heard many times over, but be patient because you never know what lies ahead around the corner for you


rm_bucfannn 61M/60F
2110 posts
3/6/2006 5:38 am

Ah, the face pic. Mine isn't on my profile for personal reasons, but, I always provide one when responding to an email I show interest in. And, I expect the same. Isn't a lot to ask for, is it?

And yes, as tennismaiden pointed out, men well outnumber women on this site, probably well more than 20-1. Yes, we can scrutinize - basically pick and choose. Fair? Probably not. Fun? Uh, yeah


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