BEEN KINDA SAD LATELY  

areutrueatheart 42F
21 posts
7/4/2006 12:45 am

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7/19/2006 11:38 pm

BEEN KINDA SAD LATELY


DON'T THAT BEAT ALL I CALL MY GRANDMOTHER TO CHECK ON HER AND SHE DECIDES TO TELL ME THAT THEY BURIED MY GREAT AUNT MARIE THE DAY BEFORE .WTF !!! I FEEL LIKE MY FAMILY CAN GIVE A FUCK ABOUT ME IT TRUELY ME OFF.I WAS LIKE WTF .AM I CHOP LIVER NOT ONE OF U COULD OF CALLED AND TOLD ME 5 DAYS BEFORE THEY BURIED HER.I WOULD HAVE GOT OFF FROM WORK AND WENT TO BE WITH MY FAMILY, BUT NO .NOT ONE OF MY AUNTS UNCLES OR COUSINS CALLED ME.GRANDMA I UNDERSTAND .SHES OLD AND ALWAYS LOSES PHONE NUMBERS,BUT THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR THE OTHER HALF OF THE FAMILY NOT TO CALL ME. THIS BROKE MY HEART.

DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/4/2006 4:17 am

Are you close to your family? were you close to your great aunt? there may have been a reason they didn't want you to be there... or they may have thought you could be told eventually, as sad as it was, you would be told when you would be told.

You're not chopped liver, you're just not very close with your family. It happens. Why should they contact you, if you don't contact them, you know? (yeah, i know, because you're family... but that only really works with people who are close to one another, or wish to be.) How often do you contact your other family members?

Send your prayers, and your regards, and your love, and your sorrow. Contact those family who were closest to your great aunt, yourself. Give them your ear. They'll appreciate that you care; and it'll put you all on the path to being closer with one another, if you reach out first. In my opinion.


Singlemark74 42M

7/4/2006 12:15 pm

Im am sorry for your loss.


imLadyBambi 58M/50F

7/4/2006 8:59 pm

It is heart wrenching to be left out forgotten, and treated as though you are invisible. I'm sorry things are that way.

Lady Bambi


areutrueatheart 42F
5 posts
7/5/2006 1:11 am

i called just 3 days before that and not a word about it thats what hurt me the most


rm_luvseeker612 54M
10 posts
7/9/2006 9:39 am

I read about your past through a post you wrote to someone else. No one should have to go through such a thing, and if you didn't have a strong support group from your family, it had to be twice as tough. Whether you realize it or not,you have come so far. With what you've been through, life can only get better. I hope you are at a point in your life where you can see that. Few people can be as strong as you are; you are a survivor. As an adult, I hope you now have people you can count on. Just remember, the rest of your life can be fantastic.


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