What is wrong with MARRIED men?  

apprehensively 69M
6 posts
5/9/2005 10:03 am

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What is wrong with MARRIED men?

This whole site is for people to find friends and yes, sex parteners for couples, groups etc.. So I can't understand the discrimination against married men. They are by far the safest, cleanest, most descrete members of the human race. It shouldn't even be a criteria in this quest for "strange" He sure as Hell isn't going to be talking out of school and there is only danger to himself. So if there are couples, groups or whatever really looking for the third or just another swinging stiff, study the profiles, meet somewhere neutral. No personal information need be exchanged. If you or they are real, which 90% of those on this site are not, you'll know on that first meet. If it is a no go then say so. Don't drag on for weeks. I know that there those out there holding their chests and having the vapors that I would suggest aiding and abetting adultery but a lot of the time, simmer down, not all the time, there is action on both sides. So don't be so fast to judge. By the by. Do you know where your spouse is tonight?


TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/9/2005 10:49 am

Married men have wives... and nothing, or almost nothing is more scarry than a woman scorned as we know. There are lots of reasons for women not to want to deal with married men, your arguments are valid as well. I simply repect any woman who makes that her policy, and frankly they have enough single men on this site not to need to worried aobut the married me (and lets not forget - some of the 'single' men are most likely not being up front about their status).

FYI - I have contacted a few women with 'no married men' in their profile, just to say hi, and a few have replied back. I made it a point to note my status in the 1st line though.

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

5/9/2005 10:52 am

Well I suppose they are worried about all the drama. When it hits the fan, you will get some on you as well. We take each person case by case. Yes married who want to stay married will be very quiet about the meetings.

missy97330 47F

5/9/2005 11:34 am

I think for many women they figure if you cheat on your wife you will cheat on them.

But I agree, married men are cleaner and more discreet. Unless they have been running around with a LOT of women, and most of them have not.

I have not said no to a married man yet solely based on the fact that he is married. The guy I am seeing now is married. It sucks though when I can't call him or email him (his computer at home records everything). And I am a little jealous that his wife gets to see him so much, gets to sleep next to him at night, has financial security from being with him, etc. On the other hand I keep wondering to myself how can I do this to another woman? What's wrong with ME?

But I think I am a rarity and that married men on this site have to search pretty hard to find someone.

martin-1 41M

5/9/2005 12:28 pm

Here's my simple 2 cents... Men can think with their dick, but women cannot hink with their pussy (at least the majority). To a guy, sex is sex and nothing more unless he wants it to be more. For most women, sex is more mental then just physical and as a result they wonder more about "the other woman", how they would feel it it were themselves being the other women etc.

If you're looking for true "no strings attached", fuck-buddy, type sex/interaction... I do think it's the more discreet, safer option.

Now let the discussion flare and the arguements fly )


apprehensively 69M
1 post
5/11/2005 9:03 am

Thanks for the comments so far. The piece was written for all the whining married men on the site who want to know why they are passed over. My suggestion of adultery should be a personal decision. I know that a moment of indescretion can be a killer. so to each his own just be prepared to accept the consequence. FYI: My original post was denied for "short, bad languages, solicitation, personal information and human error" The felon that denied should have the cajones to elaborate I.E.! Show ME what you have a problem with! Have the common sense to realize that this is a sex oriented forum if you are offended leave the blog area. No one is holding a gun on you making you participate!!

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