One lover..two lovers..more lovers  

annierocks 61F
164 posts
7/26/2006 8:45 am

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8/3/2006 5:20 am

One lover..two lovers..more lovers

How many are you looking for?

annierocks 61F

7/26/2006 9:40 am

Can I be one of those two?

rm_gentleeyes3 60M
68 posts
7/26/2006 11:34 am

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<Is looking for that ONE!!!...
A Friend, a Confidant, one who knows the intimate secrets, and most importantly, the one who is always there...For a long long time.

annierocks 61F

7/26/2006 11:38 am you worry about falling in love?

rm_gentleeyes3 60M
68 posts
7/26/2006 11:50 am

Love can be a multiple definition as you know...can you love your lover? I think so..can you love your lover as you do your "family"? I doubt it. Can the "love" in a discreet relationship lead to another love? Unfortunaltly too many have found that 99% of the time it really can't. Both have to understand in a very mature way what is the true definition of the relationship.
Can there be true personal feelings? Of course there can and should be. It's hard to put a "blanket statement" over every relationship, but in general...I don't think that true "love" and escaping to the caribbean to live the dream world exists very often, but I do love Bob Marley lmao

annierocks 61F

7/26/2006 2:20 pm

I fell in love...or something. It was intense and it was too close to being a threat.

rm_lastinglovr 57M
4 posts
7/26/2006 8:06 pm

Annie, I would be shocked, after reading a few of your posts, if you DIDN'T fall in love with someone you had an affair with. I think it's only natural, and a true sign of who you are as a person. I know I couldn't have an affair without having those kinds of feelings. You just have to figure out how to deal with those feelings, in a positive and mature way, and not let them change your life, unless YOU want them to. That's the hard part, sometimes, but it can be done. Oh... and for me, ONE is enough... as long as she's the right one.

annierocks 61F

7/26/2006 8:18 pm

Ahh...I am afraid I am an open book. So whatis the secret?

rm_cking4plezr 58M

7/27/2006 12:29 am

I think one at a time is plenty. Don't want to call out the wrong name in the throes (sp?) of passion, lol! Being married, I'm already pushing my limit of having two women in my life. Having more than one lover could get complicated. I'd rather invest the time and energy into developing the relationship for as long as it runs its course, then move on to another, if that is what I desire at that time in my life. Make sense?


annierocks 61F

7/27/2006 4:00 am

Well, it it's me it does...

goodandevil74 42M

7/27/2006 7:42 am

Annie, Annie, Annie, I think you'd be too much for any man, or two, or three--shall I keep counting?

annierocks 61F

7/27/2006 11:11 am

Tis true, Good, tis true. Such is my fate.

rm_Cozmo5877 58M

7/30/2006 6:03 am

I am curious about one thing Annie. what pleasure do you extract from this site? is it enough just to interact vial blogs and possibly the occasional email? MY question(s) to you would be the ones you pose to many lovers.....what are YOUR thoughts on having a lover outside of your marriage, and, if YOU could ask anyone on this site one question, what would it be?

annierocks 61F

7/30/2006 6:32 am

I am here right now because I have an interest in the blog. You see, I found what I was looking for and my subscription has not run out. I enjoy the people here even though I'm not looking for lovers.

So, when my subscription is gone, I will be too.

And...I hide nothing from my husband.

What one question would I ask? It's like Lay's potato chips...I can't stop at just one.

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