found the answer...  

anivorygrl 56F
68 posts
4/30/2006 4:25 pm

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8/24/2006 4:02 pm

found the answer...

I have found the answer to my dilema, I just won't see him anymore. Was that too easy?

elysianpleasure 47M

4/30/2006 5:38 pm

Sounds easy enough to me... Good luck. Welcome to the blog. I hope things get better for you.

mondauthor 29M
62 posts
5/2/2006 3:17 pm

Way to easy ivorygrl. I think this guy just feels guilty and shallow for not being able to get past physical appearances. But at the same time he knows it is alright to have personal preferences.

If he is being honest with you, he probably thinks it is the best he can do. He doesn't want to feel bad about hurting anyone and he has never been tough enough to just blow someone off like their feelings don't matter.

Enjoy his company. Protect your heart. Don't be taken advantage of. Keep looking for the right man. And kiss Brown Dawg for me. See you soon. Larry.

anivorygrl replies on 5/2/2006 5:18 pm:
so you think that this guy is just acting like he is attracted to me? that in fact he only thinks he likes me because of my inner being not my outer being?

is it possible to still look for another man while i am enjoying this man's company? i do not think this man would take advantage of me because i'm not that easy.

i do know that every minute i have spent with this guy i have totally enjoyed. he talked about all the memories we would have after ten years, kind of scared me. this is someone that does not see me as a LTR but yet he talks like i am what he needs. of course i am confused and would take the chicken way out, isn't that human nature?

brown dawg misses you larry. xoxo debbie

caressmewell 53F

5/2/2006 9:27 pm

I wish I had an answer for you.
I agree with the "men don't say what they mean" part...I've recently run into this with someone and now things are a mess even though we both say that we want the others friendship. Everything is awkward now.

I wish you luck with your dilema.

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