Independence...good or bad thing?  

anivorygrl 56F
68 posts
5/15/2006 5:37 pm

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Independence...good or bad thing?

All my adult life I have been an independent woman. This was not because I wanted to be one it was that I had to be one. Believe me guys are afraid of this!! More men have been scared off by my independence than I have toes and fingers to count on, may I borrow yours? What never ceases to amaze me is why don't they ask me about my independence? I would love to have someone that I could depend on. Guys, you can not imagine how wonder it would make me feel to find the one guy I can depend on and lean on. I am tired of always having to be the strong one, the responsible one. It would be so wonderful to find someone that wanted to 'take care' of me for a change. There we go with that damn knight in shining armor thing, huh? well until he rides in on his horse or iron horse i will blog on.

mondauthor 29M
62 posts
5/15/2006 10:19 pm

That man does exist, it just takes a while to find him. Good Luck.

crazygurl2xx 56F

6/19/2006 4:34 pm

sometimes being strong means admitting you can't do it all, accept help, ask for help and always thank the people who help you.

again, the theory of concrete expectations: tell men what you want and that you won't accept less because you deserve to be happy. you might want to start off with real specific things like "it would really make me feel better about our relationship if you would mow my yard for me when it needs it because i can do everything myself but then it makes me resentful and bitchy and i want and need to feel cared for" or something like that.

it's real simple

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