Warning for our lady readers  

angelwoarose 41F
211 posts
2/12/2006 2:49 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Warning for our lady readers

1. No matter how charming a man may be...if he says "I love you", "I wanna be with you", "I wanna marry you", or "have my babies"...he is full of shit and probably says that to everyone.

2. Chances are if they know the right words to say it is because they have said to countless of other women...you are not the only one they talk to, even if they say otherwise.

3. If he seems to good to be true or things just "feel different" with him...it is too good to be true and he's probably hiding something.

4. Don't get emotionally involved until you have gone out with him on real dates several times...don't let online or phone conversations fool you. You will never know the real man til you see him with his buddies and family. When he lets his gaurd down and you see how he is when he isn't trying to woo you.

5. It seems that showing a man attention is making yourself look desprite...so ignore the asshole til he can't think about anything but you. You'll have a better chance than if you treat them well and let them think that you actually give a shit.

6. Don't chase him. This actually annoys guys...even the ones that complain about women not responding to them. Guys like to say things but actually think differently about them once it happens. The chase is more important than the catch.

6. If you do become emotionally involved with a man and he wants to stay close friends...RUN LIKE HELL. Because it will only be destructive for you. IF he can't see the worth in you and want to be with you he isn't worth your time. He shouldn't have lead you on in the first place if he just wanted friends.

Ladies, it's time we stop falling for the bullshit that most men put out. If you notice everyman says that he's different...that he knows how to treat a woman right....How often do they really follow thru with that? Get real. Talk is cheap and it's time we stop falling for it.


2/13/2006 1:48 pm

Hmmmm.....interesting that is the approach you are suggesting women to take. I have seen and heard many men say that is the same approach to take with women. FTR.....I think both are bull-shit! Be yourself! Don't put on airs or an act and you will get the same in return. You can smell bullshit a mile a way! Play games and you will not get games in return.......you will get nothing!

angelwoarose 41F

2/13/2006 2:51 pm

I"m very jaded at the moment...it will pass. But I am tired of the lies i am told...and being lead on. Sorry if you disagree.

rm_douknowmeyet 41F

3/4/2006 12:56 am

Seems in reading your blog, I too have been played. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing your experience, thoughts and feelings. I am too dang old to be playing games. If a man doesnt want me as I am, then he's not worthy of me. I am, as well as Im sure you are, a very good woman. I would treat "my man" with nothing but respect, courtesy, deepest admiration and the most love I would be able to give. Seems that just isnt enough for some...and yet maybe too much for others. Who knows what tomorrow holds, so I keep plugging away.

n2ww 45M
1 post
3/8/2006 8:08 pm

I'm new here. Just signed on yesterday. Dropping all internet service tomorrow. Just wanted to give my 2 cents on this. I'm a good man. Married twice. Both times busted my ass to support them and there children (which were not mine)they still cheated on me. I consider my self a decent looking feller. Of average size. I'm about quility not quantity. I have very old fashioned values and morals. Which no woman in this world have any more. It is understandable though for women to act like this seeing that the roles were reversed years ago. I guess women are just getting even nowadays. Just out of a relationship in which was to be married the middle of this month. She was and still is seeing a married man. Good to find out now instead of later. Women with your thinking are ruining it for the good men like myself that is left. Which there is not many like me left in this day and time. Sorry if offended anyone. Just my 2 cents. Thanks for letting me vent. Scott

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