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angelwithahalo 59F
146 posts
4/12/2005 7:01 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Mellow


Dont know why I am even attempting this today but what the heck.I again find myself at odds I have been through an experience I hope no one ever has to go through.Put it behind you is easier said then done but I guess that is what I need to do.Get back in the saddle and keep on trucking.I want to feel safe,where do I go to find that? is it in myself?or do I look to others?I am so confused why do I deal with these emotions must be a female thing men can just do it and tack it up to another notch in their belt.Any suggestions?There are a couple of guys here I have feelings for do I walk away.Im off to have some quiet time see if I can figure it out Will try to post a more cheerful blog later on

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
4/17/2005 2:24 am

Hi angel, is your dilema these guys or something else? why don't you feel safe? Ching is right only you can change how you feel, and indeed men often have these feelings themselves they are actually less equiped to cope with them than we are which is why so many of them bottle them up and get frustrated.

look at how you feel for them, what to do?

you can focus these emotions into friendship and enjoy them but be careful not to let them develope into more,

you can simply enjoy their company while you have it and let things go where they will, be open and honest with them all as to where you are in life and what you want to do, they will have their own ideas of where they are and where they are going, let them choose their own path, be sure of your own desires and what will happen will happen....

is it that you crave a constant companion and company? this wont make you feel safe again only you can do that for yourself, but there isn't anything wrong with craving a life partner either.

I hope you enjoy your contemplations and find peace within yourself, and realise you are yourself you don't need another to make you complete, but the inspiration and joy other's can bring to your life doesn't mean a lacking in yourself, but instead a further development of.....

WyvernRose


angelwithahalo 59F

4/19/2005 5:37 pm

thanks Rose and Sur I agree with what you are saying I know I am heading in the right direction Sur you know the story lol, thanks for always being there hon and rose as always I respect your advice if I ever get back to Aussie land you would be a fun person to meet.


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