Turn Me On!  

angelofmercy5 58F
12148 posts
8/31/2006 4:29 am

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9/8/2006 8:08 pm

Turn Me On!

Yesterday, I read some of the new bloggers on here. There were a large number of them who were couples looking for a woman or another couple to join them. And quite a few that were women looking for another woman to make love to their man.......even a few that wanted to surprise their man for his birthday with his all time fantasy.

So....I'm wondering.....what is your all time fantasy? Why is it that so many men.....married men.....just want to make love to another woman? Is it just for variety? Don't you believe your wife or girlfriend is enjoying your lovemaking? Tell me.

But most of all.......what am I missing by not making love to you? What would we do together that would rock my world and change my life???

Details, details, details people!!!!!

mewisemagic3 50M

8/31/2006 4:55 am

You're probably not missing too much LOL!

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 5:26 am:
Are you sure?

economickrisis 54M

8/31/2006 5:11 am

Aww gee ..I dunno.... but I got this little trick I do, lickin my eyebrow with my tongue

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 5:27 am:
Kris......I wanna see! I wanna see!

horny4770 60M
8158 posts
8/31/2006 5:22 am

Well Angel, let’s see here . . .

I’m such an irresistible talented stud muffin and there plenty of me to go around!?!?

...and I can breathe thru my ears!


angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 5:28 am:
Horny.....Fly and I both want to see that trick! You've got your work cut out for you now.

firestarter665 42M/39F

8/31/2006 5:30 am

Of course my fantasy is for Mr. Fire and myself to have another woman in our bedroom. Not for him to have sex with, he does not want that. But for me and another woman to play with each other and please Mr. Fire with oral.

I am not sure if I would rock your world, but you would definitely have fun.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:04 am:
Fire.....and it would be a totally new experience for me too! Sure you want to have to "teach" someone?

kob741 36M
4 posts
8/31/2006 5:42 am

Hey u funny blog, u hit me yeterday was just returning the favor . I would love to party with u lol. so please tell me a little about u and what u like, and then what makes u feel all warm and fuzzy inside. So i can see what i can do about makin it happen. hope this finds u doing well, and having a good day hope to hear from u soon.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:05 am:
Kob.....I'm doing great! And it looks like I could even be better! Thanks for stopping by today.

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1993 posts
8/31/2006 6:03 am

You'll just have to come over and read them on my blog...It's what I think is sensuous and inspiring...*evil grin*

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:05 am:
Skier......love the evil grin! I'm headed over there now.

rm_wombat105 49M

8/31/2006 6:58 am

dont know what it is about having two girls at the same time but would love to try it. had mfm with a married couple a few time that was fun a bit strange but really good fun.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:07 am:
Wombat.....Do you wonder if you could handle two girls at one time? I guess you will have to try it to find out! Right?

MaggiesWishes 59F

8/31/2006 7:23 am

I'm innocent , but between the two of us, I'm sure we'd have this awesome " fantasy story" to entice the readers and stir up some vivid fantasies for the men, too.
Maybe you should wander over and take a peek at my post, funny how the "wicked womanly mind" makes it feel soooo good.

Sorry I've been out of the loop, but I'm catching up.
You have my "prayers and mega warm huggies" for anytime you need them. love 2ya Sis

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 12:23 pm:
Maggie...I've been praying for you and your daughter also Sis! I bet between the two of us we could have all of blogland drooling! lol Thanks my sweet sister!

rm_depestblue 42M

8/31/2006 8:34 am

Just popping inn to say hi......and thanks for reading my blog
I'm new to this, so I think I'll just observe from the sidelines for a while and see how this develops.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 12:25 pm:
Depest......you just observe all you want to! This blogging is a personal thing....and you can write about whatever you want to. I'm looking forward to reading more of yours....and thanks for stopping by.

CongaFelixRubes 54M  
1223 posts
8/31/2006 9:11 am

I think the fantasy it being close to other people.

I don't think sex with me would rock your world or change your life but the companionship will.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 12:27 pm:
Havefun.....that is the sweetest answer! I bet you are a wonderful person.

howaboutahuck 65M
489 posts
8/31/2006 11:18 am

I would hold you and never let go.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 12:27 pm:
Howabout.....I bet you would. Thanks sweetie!

rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
8/31/2006 1:21 pm

Missing? Oh nothing at all. I leave the world-rocking and life-changing stuff up to professionals. Could probably help you out if you needed a shudder or two though.

All time fantasy? Hrm. I always did like that post-apocalyptic one with the 12 women to every one guy thing, but then I thought about how much work that'd really be and changed my mind...

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 1:40 pm:
Ptalk......a shudder or two or three is enough for any woman! And as for your fantasy?????? I think that one would be alot of work.

LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
8/31/2006 2:33 pm

I don't have a fantasy of being with multiple partners or doing wild and crazy things...but only to be with THE man. He's my unicorn...that fantasy creature who does not exist.

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:16 pm:
Lady.....I love your fantasy. And may that fantasy creature take shape in real life for you soon. ~hugs~

spacecadet561 59M

8/31/2006 3:56 pm

What am I missing by not making love to you? A luxurious beard to tickle you as I kiss you all over before eating you until you cum. Then an earnest fuck from an average sized cock, hopefully making you cum at least once again before I give you my seed.

What would we do together that would rock my world and change my life??? Go to the Lincoln Memorial and tell Mr. Lincoln what we've done to make his country and the world a better place.


angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:17 pm:
Space......Mr Lincoln would probably be shocked by the likes of us, wouldn't he?

terry4u9 54M

8/31/2006 5:20 pm

My thought on the married men. Maybe there wife will not sleep with them at all. My x and I did not sleep together for 5 years. She would not go to dinner with me,x-mas party at work, or even hold my hand. I am glad to be seperate from her now and be able to get a hug from a woman and hold hands with my dates. Of course every time is different and no two marriages are the same.
My fantasy hmm maybe something simple. A date with a kind loving lady who likes me for who I am. Maybe a walk on the beach with her looking at the stars. If all is right a sweet kiss from her lips.

angelofmercy5 replies on 8/31/2006 7:18 pm:
Terry.....I'm glad that you have someone to hold hands with now. And a walk on the beach sounds lovely!

Sailor376 62M
2288 posts
8/31/2006 9:20 pm

Dear Angel,

I can only comment on my situation, my perspective.

I am looking for a woman to have sex. Something that has been absolutely denied here for more than a decade. Divorce means divorcing my children. Unacceptable.

You look at couples looking for an additional woman to please the man.
I see almost no couples asking for a man. Inequity. This is a sex site. Not romper room dating. Close to half of women's profiles clearly state 'no married'. Anything similar in the men's profiles?

Bitterness, yes. Because what I really want is to be in love. Deeply, fully connected, mentally, emotionally, physically, stirred and blended into a broth and brought to a boil. I want it to start between the ears with discourse of religion, politics, science, arts, music. I want to be informed, my ideas changed by reason and fact unknown. I want her to have courage and depth of soul to look out across the lake and feel, really feel, where she is and to have her weep at the sunrise's beauty. Stand the deck in a gale because the wind in her hair and soul feels so good. Sit out on the fore deck and do crossword puzzles while I do sudoku and asking occasionally for a nine letter word, starts with..........Gentle, strong, lovely and blithe. And when the endorphins begin to flow and that precious reason takes flight, the openness to let it flow and blend with me and mine. One plus one equaling about a million. Details?

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
8/31/2006 10:05 pm

Well my dear, Let's talk about the why of MFM or FMF. Now I have no experience but I like what TennisMaiden said of hers. She kinda hinted that someone can not be everything to another person and the two may compliment each other and provide what one alone could not.
Now I guess two people attending to one can bring pleasures that one alone can not.

I am what I am. I bring me. Rock your world? I'd do what I could and try to learn the rest.

My fantasy? I have so much I want to try that I never knew about before my dry spell. The list keeps growing and growing.

VATraveler1948 68M

9/1/2006 5:08 am

I don't know that I can tell you what you are missing... but I know I am missing a whole lot by not having the opportunity to make love to you.

As for my fantasy... I think my biggest fantasy is seeing another man make love to my wife, I guess I'm talking about a MFM encounter. I would like to take part but I really want to see her being pleasured by another man.

rm_beachtalent 55M  
2 posts
9/2/2006 7:19 am

Well,, What are you missing? It all depends on how comfortable you are with your self and enjoy being pleased. I have been involved in both M/f/m and f/m/f, both can be extremely erotic as long as everyone is comfortable with the situation.
that being said there is something about experiencing the 'taboo's, Ie seeing your g/f getting pleasured and then pleasing her again after that or experiencing multiple sensations at the same time. Then there is something about pleasing someones partner as they watch,you put 200% effort into making sure they enjoy themselves because you want them to feel happy with the decision to share with some one else and know that it was appreciated

As for being married and partners outside the marriage, that is tough the love is there the drive isn't, is it to much work not enough play? What happens if you want to play and she doesn't? or if she wants to play and you don't?

rm_beachtalent 55M  
2 posts
9/2/2006 7:32 am

As for different partners, its not about variety, its about style, skills and talent. "uniqueness"

You love your partner, and they have a certain skill set and style that you know and love. You know there are other styles out there whether is more aggressive, less aggressive, more vocal, or less vocal, more oral or less oral, touch is softer or harder, the lipps are bigger or smaller, the tongue is longer, shorter more active, less active, the nipples more responsive or less, its about each persons uniqueness.. mix these all together and you a different experience, does that mean you don't enjoy the uniqueness of what you have at home? No more than likely it means you appreciate it and understand it. Then you have to weave in layer's of desire, jealousy, communication, and you get 'drama' depending on the situation.

Modern society has so much more information and access than 50 years ago, look at what we are doing right here? This type of discussion 50 years ago would have never of happened. Does it make wrong or right? Don't know

HeatedCondition 60M
890 posts
9/3/2006 5:59 pm

Why is it that so many men.....married men.....just want to make love to another woman? Is it just for variety?

I think you answered your own question, at least in my case. And I think most men want variety.

Don't you believe your wife or girlfriend is enjoying your lovemaking? Tell me.

Yes, she does. I know what she likes. But I feel no passion. I miss that.

But most of all.......what am I missing by not making love to you?

I don't know that you're missing anything in particular, except that you aren't experiencing ME, my individual self, and everyone is different in some way. I would be a completely unique experience, good or bad, but most likely VERY good. I'm confident of that.

What would we do together that would rock my world and change my life???

I can't say I'd rock your world OR change your life. I'd sure like to think I could have that strong an impact. And I'd surely put forth the effort! What we'd do together would be very sexual, and it would involve liberal use of my lips and hands. And for at least that stretch of time together, your world would do some rocking.


MrMuffD69 52M
1 post
9/4/2006 10:42 pm

Well I don't know what you would be missing, but I do suspect that you don't miss much. So let me throw this one out there. You meet this sexy, attractive couple out in a bar one night and you are somewhat attracted to them. They ask you to join them for the evening at there house. You throw caution to the wind and join them. On the ride to there house the woman tells you that she is Bi and finds you to be incredibly sexy and that you are turning her on. As she starts to play with herself. Once at the house you all go upstairs to the bedroom to relax. The man leaves to bring you ladies a little something to drink, maybe a cocktail. While he is gone the woman makes her move on you and its a good one. She gets you hot and turned on and starts ripping your clothes off. All this has you burning withe desire. The man returns and sees the two of you and just quietly sits down. After a time the woman realizes that he is back and rises from both you and the bed and slowly and sexily walks over to him with her

oralstud4 72M

9/5/2006 12:40 pm

Hi Angel. What could I do to rock your world. Well let me see, I earned my handle at swingers socials over the 10 plus years my wife and i were swinging with an open marriage. At thw socials there always seemed to be a challenge for my trophy of the oral stud. We always limited the challengers to 5 each social and we would have 6 or 8 ladies as judges. When my wife wanted to give up swinging about 19 years ago so I stopped going to socials as I did not have a partner I retired as oral champion undefeated. A gentleman has to enjoy eating pussy which I do. This is how I would rock your world before we made love, I would have you crying uncle so many times as your pleasure is my utmost pleasure.
The second part of your question - why do married men want to fuck other ladies? Well for the past 2 plus years my wife has developed physical problems with her back and both hips where it is painful to have sex over once every 6 months. With my normal healthy sex drive that is not enough and my hand and arm is getting tired.
My wife and I were having problems in our marriage in the early 1970's and when we agreed to give swinging a try and agreeded to an open marriage, she and her married friend would meet with married men during the day and fuck them silly and tell me about it when I got home from work and thrill me to no end and she would get fucked again that night. All our problems melted away, we communicated with each other better, and our love for each other grew stronger. I can truly say I love her more now after 41 years of marriage than I did when we got married and I owe it to swinging.
My wife suggested about six months ago that I should get back into swinging as she did not enjoy sex and or fucking anymore just keep it discreet and she didn't want to know about it just so I had a good time so after thinking about it for 4 months, I found the sites Swap Finders and Horney Matches and joined both sites. The reason I joined these sites is we had been out of swinging so long and moved around due to job transfers we had lost contact with past swingers and I have no contacts and you cannot walk up to a lady and say " lets fuck". Now I/we live around the Chattanooga, TN area and I have been honest and up front with every contact I have responded to and it seems the word MARRIED MAN is taboo, not even the courtesy of a no thank you I/we are not interested. I am an outgoing easy person to get to know and an experiences swinger who has been there and trying to get started again. My wife and I had a 100% response rate for all contacts to us when we advertised in magazines in 1970's and locals we always met personally even if to give them a no thank you after a 45 minute meeting to encourage them about the lifestyle. Swinging is about making lasting friendships if you stay in it and for mutual enjoyment and in my case it is not sneaking around it is self preservation. Thanks for posting this Blog!!

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