Avoid A Wrong Man for Love  

angelique392 48F
62 posts
7/30/2006 4:03 am

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7/31/2006 8:29 pm

Avoid A Wrong Man for Love


As a smart woman looking for real love and not just a short-term thrill, it is important that you wisely recognize and avoid the wrong man quickly. Here are eight easy things that any woman can do to spot the losing candidates in her love life before she gets emotionally involved:

2.1. AVOID MEN WITH DESTRUCTIVE HABITS: If a man has a chronic drug, alcohol, or gambling habit, then it would be wise to stay away from him. 2.AVOID MEN WITH CHARACTER FLAWS: Since character is something that takes time to develop, a smart woman would be better off avoiding men with character flaws than trying hopelessly to change them.
3. AVOID MEN WHO LACK AMBITION: To many women this may not be as severe as some of the other traits. But just the same, a woman quickly tires of a man who lacks the ambition to accomplish successes in life. This often leads to financial lack which is a major cause of stress in relationships.
4. AVOID MEN WHO ARE MEAN-SPIRITED: When you associate with a man who is mean-spirited, it is only a matter of time before his meanness eventually gets redirected towards you.
5. AVOID PERSONALITY CLASHES: Don’t make the mistake of trying to create an expanded relationship like marriage with someone who clashes with you too much.6. AVOID VALUES & LIFESTYLE MISMATCHES: If we want to share a life together with someone, it makes more sense to find a partner who matches our lifestyle rather than one who doesn’t. People who have mismatching lifestyles and values may add color to our lives, but usually best-suited for a more limited association in both people’s interests.
7. AVOID MEN WITH DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIP GOALS: A smart woman will wait to invest her precious resources on a man who is willing to expand their relationship into a more fulfilling priority in life. Men who only want a limited kind of relationship are only good for women who want the same type of thing. * THE BOTTOM LINE
The choice of the right mate will contribute about 90% to your happiness or misery in life. Make sure that you make this choice wisely by first avoiding the wrong kind of man and focusing your energies on the right ones instead

ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/30/2006 5:11 am

Well said ...thank you

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
7/30/2006 6:13 am

Sounds to me like you do a lot of avoiding.

angelique392 48F

7/31/2006 8:28 pm

your very welcome friend

angelique392 48F

7/31/2006 8:29 pm

hmmmmmmm yes you are right......woman sense hehehehe

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